so i went to this sunday session with friends from uni and i decieded i would try my skills on a HB 6 and 6.5
pre selection- always use it, for all those who are really really new to the game here is the example. One of my good burd friends came along and wanted me to show her round..so i did..i made her laugh so hard..and she grabbed the back of my shirt..most of the women un the room kept staring thinging"whats up with those two" anyway onto the important stuff.
hb6- american burd, got her interest and held it for a short period of time. though teh convo dried up at time (i fucking couldn't think of what to say..my brain froze again). She would have been a goer no probs but i ****** up i wasnt confident enuff and the convo dried up more than once..however i tried one of gamblers tricks..i rested my leg next to her under the table so both our legs were touching and she didn't move hers. i knew she was a goer but i just couldnt find anything to talk to her about..
bh6.5- got her laughing by opening with "have ye ever wanted to meet the easter bunny"? from what i can remember our faces were quite close we kept looking into each others eyes..it was pretty cool, though again the convo dried up though i had her interest for a little bit then it fizzled out.
so a few sticking points
*need to dhv i did that via pre selection
*kino- i always have a fecking problem with this one, i just find it weird touching burds cos of the whole "keep yer hands to yerself crap"
* self confidence- i knew i couyld have had her but didn't know how to go about it
*be playfull and tease, im way to serious at times
*need to use routines (what do most of the more experienced members of this forum talk to women about?)
* subtle ioi's..i have big big trouble with this one what are some of them? is one of them "who can show me to the toilet"?
i went and conquered my aa today a bit at college, i approached 5 girls. aa is in yer own head..the girls dont hate you unless you're nasty to them other than that most girls are quite receptive, even teh hot ones.
though i have anotehr sticking point is this normal= i'll see a hb, approach her and start making a convo, but then that "oh shes hot" thought will die out and it will just be concentrated on the convo and her looks wont mean pish. Is that normal? its like when i approach a girl i like then we start talking that initial aura of attraction on my part fades out..