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  1. #1
    dark knight Guest

    Default what did i do wrong

    so i went to this sunday session with friends from uni and i decieded i would try my skills on a HB 6 and 6.5

    pre selection- always use it, for all those who are really really new to the game here is the example. One of my good burd friends came along and wanted me to show her round..so i did..i made her laugh so hard..and she grabbed the back of my shirt..most of the women un the room kept staring thinging"whats up with those two" anyway onto the important stuff.

    hb6- american burd, got her interest and held it for a short period of time. though teh convo dried up at time (i fucking couldn't think of what to say..my brain froze again). She would have been a goer no probs but i ****** up i wasnt confident enuff and the convo dried up more than once..however i tried one of gamblers tricks..i rested my leg next to her under the table so both our legs were touching and she didn't move hers. i knew she was a goer but i just couldnt find anything to talk to her about..

    bh6.5- got her laughing by opening with "have ye ever wanted to meet the easter bunny"? from what i can remember our faces were quite close we kept looking into each others eyes..it was pretty cool, though again the convo dried up though i had her interest for a little bit then it fizzled out.

    so a few sticking points

    *need to dhv i did that via pre selection
    *kino- i always have a fecking problem with this one, i just find it weird touching burds cos of the whole "keep yer hands to yerself crap"
    * self confidence- i knew i couyld have had her but didn't know how to go about it
    *be playfull and tease, im way to serious at times
    *need to use routines (what do most of the more experienced members of this forum talk to women about?)
    * subtle ioi's..i have big big trouble with this one what are some of them? is one of them "who can show me to the toilet"?

    i went and conquered my aa today a bit at college, i approached 5 girls. aa is in yer own head..the girls dont hate you unless you're nasty to them other than that most girls are quite receptive, even teh hot ones.

    though i have anotehr sticking point is this normal= i'll see a hb, approach her and start making a convo, but then that "oh shes hot" thought will die out and it will just be concentrated on the convo and her looks wont mean pish. Is that normal? its like when i approach a girl i like then we start talking that initial aura of attraction on my part fades out..

  2. #2
    TheresNothingToIt Guest

    Default Re: what did i do wrong

    though i have anotehr sticking point is this normal= i'll see a HB, approach her and start making a convo, but then that "oh shes hot" thought will die out and it will just be concentrated on the convo and her looks wont mean pish. Is that normal? its like when i approach a girl i like then we start talking that initial aura of attraction on my part fades out..
    That's EXACTLY how you should feel. Once you're talking to the "hb 6.5 - 10" whatever you feel is in your standards area, you shouldn't look at her as a number on a scale from 1 to 10 she should automatically drop down from a rating you previously gave her, but not in an as$hole way. Just enough to where you forget you're talking to a total 10 and talk to her as if she was a 1, someone you can talk to without the nervousness of picking her up or getting turned down. Once you can look at a 10 and talk to her as a 1 or someone you're friends with already who you have no problem talking to, ever, cause you aren't worried about being turned down, it won't show. Girls can tell when you're talking to them if you're nervous and automatically know what's ahead. Eliminate that problem and you're golden!

  3. #3
    Blahwolf Guest

    Default Re: what did i do wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by dark knight View Post
    so i went to this sunday session with friends from uni and i decieded i would try my skills on a HB 6 and 6.5

    pre selection- always use it, for all those who are really really new to the game here is the example. One of my good burd friends came along and wanted me to show her round..so i did..i made her laugh so hard..and she grabbed the back of my shirt..most of the women un the room kept staring thinging"whats up with those two" anyway onto the important stuff.

    hb6- american burd, got her interest and held it for a short period of time. though teh convo dried up at time (i farking couldn't think of what to say..my brain froze again). She would have been a goer no probs but i ****** up i wasnt confident enuff and the convo dried up more than once..however i tried one of gamblers tricks..i rested my leg next to her under the table so both our legs were touching and she didn't move hers. i knew she was a goer but i just couldnt find anything to talk to her about..

    bh6.5- got her laughing by opening with "have ye ever wanted to meet the easter bunny"? from what i can remember our faces were quite close we kept looking into each others eyes..it was pretty cool, though again the convo dried up though i had her interest for a little bit then it fizzled out.

    so a few sticking points

    *need to dhv i did that via pre selection
    *kino- i always have a fecking problem with this one, i just find it weird touching burds cos of the whole "keep yer hands to yerself crap"
    * self confidence- i knew i couyld have had her but didn't know how to go about it
    *be playfull and tease, im way to serious at times
    *need to use routines (what do most of the more experienced members of this forum talk to women about?)
    * subtle ioi's..i have big big trouble with this one what are some of them? is one of them "who can show me to the toilet"?

    i went and conquered my aa today a bit at college, i approached 5 girls. aa is in yer own head..the girls dont hate you unless you're nasty to them other than that most girls are quite receptive, even teh hot ones.

    though i have anotehr sticking point is this normal= i'll see a hb, approach her and start making a convo, but then that "oh shes hot" thought will die out and it will just be concentrated on the convo and her looks wont mean pish. Is that normal? its like when i approach a girl i like then we start talking that initial aura of attraction on my part fades out..

    I have the same problem! I've been out of the game for 3yrs (thanks medical school admin) I feel like I forgot everything. I can open, get a few smiles and even build a bit of kino as well as I.D IOIs. My problem is once my opener runs dry I got nothing. I realize that in order to keep it moving you got two opinions you can ask a question or make a statement. Most of the questions I think of are drab and lack luster. There is no build in it. I think I am not bad at flirting but w/o kino or something to build on an opener I am dead in the waves and just come off sleezy.

    You go out sarging. You open a set. Then what?

  4. #4
    dark knight Guest

    Default Re: what did i do wrong

    after opening a set perhaps bust he balls so to speak, tease her..ask her what she does then respond with "what motivates you to do that"..build a connection..Kino


  5. #5
    Coyote Guest

    Default Re: what did i do wrong

    my initial phase of overcoming aa was to just keep drilling the approaches. collecting numbers. collecting names, 'dates' experiences, just getting in motion so that i was always approaching babes and seeing wtf was going on with em... my friends could not believe sometimes what i had the balls to do as they weren't up with PU... they were just a crew i was passing through and their games was gear so they thought i was a hep sorta dude even though i kept right out of their game.

    i got to a point somewhere that i had a girl i was going with and she didn't mind me having other younger girls. as a matter of fact she liked me seeing other younger girls as she was 10 years older than me and she was busy with her shit and she liked the look. she dug me too and she had a few skills

    anything that i was crashing and burning in i just let it. and then i would open another til i thought i had done alot of collection and felt a need to consolidate. the gf had gone and i still had a bit of game going on....

    i am probably still in this phase 18 months down the track and i didn't do much new approaching until a very short while ago.

    i am topping up my level of game and i employ a few more resources in developing the relationships i already have. i try and be as honest as possible in the first part and bring things into the open to talk through etc... that i feel they may not like (like other HB's)... if i lose a few so be it. it is not for everyone

    the girls i see like me as a bit of a player and they also like me cos i like them and and caring and considerate.

    if you are overcoming Approach Anxiety keep reinforcing it. drill it and drill it. build up your bank of confidence and just know that you can talk to any one any time. it all adds up


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