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    psiconauta is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Opened, kissed but she didnt want to give mer her number

    I work out at this park most of the week. I was with my dog because I also take him for a walk.

    So I was doing my stuff and I see these 3 girls riding bicycles. One of them was learning without those small wheels. After a while of seeing her fail and not going anywhere I opened them.

    I asked for a race with one of them around the park and I won. So when I came back I asked her friend for a race and she accepted. I left my dog with the other 2 girls.

    We raced just at the start, then I stopped and start walking with the bike and she did the same. I told her about the time when I learned to ride bike without the lil wheels (when I was 5) and told her "yeah I got this huge scar in my knee" (and touched her knee while doing eye contact).

    We walked to the other side of the park, out of her friends sight. We talked a couple of minutes about future plans and she told me just finished SCHOOL and that she was 16. We were talking about music and told her I was a guitarist (true) she told me she liked to dance and I said "Im terrible, you should teach me some dance moves" .

    I took her by the hand and got her closer to my body, I gave her a couple of spins, and then she ended close to me, face to face... I kissed her and she let me, but thing is she was like almost static.

    So I just went away some steps and start talking about something else, then got closer again and kissed her again... she let me and after a while she said "..I... dont know you" and I replied "I dont know you either... but my name is (my name)... see? were not strangers anymore" and she smiled and giggled.

    After the kiss she was like in a trance, like she was still proccessing what just happened. I took her by the hand and told her "youre right, we should know each other more...lets meet this wednesday" she said "Oh Im gonna go out with my friends that day" So I said ok, lets meet on thursday and she said "yeah thats good"

    Thing is , she continued in that "trance" I asked for her number and she said "I dont know you." I propose to give mine number and she was like "ok" and then I told her "hey lets play with my dog" and she followed me.

    At the end, her fucking friend came out of nowhere and started showing her something on her phone and got her distracted for a while. I kept playing with my pet and when they had to go I asked for her number again with same results, so i offered my number and she said "give me your number this thursday" and my last resource was "ok ill be working out here same time, might see you" and she was like "ok" and I said good bye with a kiss on her cheek while holding her arm.

    Seems like she didnt want to come closer to me in front of her friends but she was like receptive in a very "closed " way.

    I dont think im gonna see her again, but I like to know "why I failed" and why she reacted this way.

    Any ideas?

    PS: this happened in less than 20 min...

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    Default Re: Opened, kissed but she didnt want to give mer her number

    Talking about future plans, finishing school, music, and playing guitar is not building attraction, if you don't build attraction you aren't getting a phone number and your certainly not getting a date ..... next time be funny, flirty, and bold once you build attraction you can build rapport .......GL

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    Default Re: Opened, kissed but she didnt want to give mer her number

    Good job kissing her. It's usually best to kiss her when she has given you enough investment and you reward her so she feels like she deserves it and it builds a stronger connection. Plan to get the number at a high point in the interaction and have her text you while you get your phone out.
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    Default Re: Opened, kissed but she didnt want to give mer her number

    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    Good job kissing her. It's usually best to kiss her when she has given you enough investment and you reward her so she feels like she deserves it and it builds a stronger connection. Plan to get the number at a high point in the interaction and have her text you while you get your phone out.
    Yeah but for some reason she didnt want to give me her number or take mine... he reply was "Lets exchange numbers this thursday" I told her that I was going to work out that day at the same time and she said she might go . But i think its more possible that she wont go and I have no way to contact her.

    Why she reacted all weird after the 2 kisses?

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    Default Re: Opened, kissed but she didnt want to give mer her number

    I've already explained it to you, The key to successful pickup is attraction. If a woman is attracted to you, you can make all sorts of mistakes in your “game” and still be successful with her. If she’s not, there’s very little you can do to make her interested in taking things to the next level. You by passed attraction and went straight to rapport and Kino .... next time be flirty and be fun ..... if you don't know how to flirt there are many good guides on this forum.


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