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    ragr Guest

    Default how to respond to this message

    OK a girl sent me a message that says:

    "You seem like someone that I'll enjoy spending the afternoon talking to. But that's just me. I'm Jess. "

    How can I possibly answer to that?

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    Excellent ioi.

    To help you frame a response... how do you know her?

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    Hey Bill. Well I was a little bored about a week ago and created a profile on Okcupid.com.

    She texted me that message. I don't know her.

    I don't really do much online dating. Just wanted to open some doors if you know what i mean.

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    OK. Tease and play hard to get.

    Reply:

    Jess, let's just take it one cup of coffee at a time...

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    lol. There is also a "you should message me if:" profile section where you put something..I put : You don't need to. I'll see that you checked out my profile and if am interested, I'll message you". what do you think about that one?

    By the way Bill. I seem to have a problem when it comes to intelligent playful answers to kind of create attraction. I always come up with them when the oportunity already passed. I just hate that.

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    Default Re: how to respond to...

    Practice more. Teasing is an art that requires practice.

    I like to playfully tease almost all the girls that I meet.

    Remember, you can use the same 'teasing' on different girls. They don't know each other.

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    Default Re: how to respond to...

    you are right.

    Last night I was at a club. and there were a group of girls directly in front of our table. One of the girls was like probable between the ages of 25 and 30, but she was definitely my kind of cougar lol. damn she was beautiful. we looked at each other eyes about 4 times. I was like what's up with this girl. one time she was dancing with one of her girlfriends, and while she was turning she looked at me and kind of flip her hair and continued dancing. I smiled at her and she kind of did too. I have to be honest my smile not was like "" it was more like a "L=" I wanted to approach her, but I didn't know what the fark to say :/..she was with about 4 friends and pulling her out of the group was another story, but that didn't worry me as much as wanting to approach but not having anything to say.

    I mean Bill, I can get girls to look at me and stuff,and attract them for like 5 minutes, but that's it. is like a need a guide or something. I feel like I have so much potential, but that I am almost wasting my youth. I walk into a club and girls look at me but, damn how to approach without making it too obvious, seeming needy, and every other negative you can imagine. any advice on that bro?


    By the way, the girl of the message responded. she said.."ahaha, right :P " I guess it was a kind of cold response.

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    ragn ..

    I've got the same problem.. I get chicks attention and all, but sometimes i have just nothing to say, which spoils everything. But usually after a few drinks i put up the nerve and just go.. Like yesterday i was at a club, me and my wing went outside for a smoke, and our opener was kind of primitive " hey have you got a lighter ? " and sometimes we continue it with " and a cigarette with that ? " we usually have a 80-90% of success rate, then we introduce ourselves, and just say something about the party or so, the girls usually talk non stop so its easy to keep up..

    But yeah i've got to say that sometimes it is hard to think of something not to Crash n Burn.. oh and I am 17 y/o and the girls are students aprox. 19-20 y/o..

    As most of the PUAs say that it is not important what will you say, it is important how you will deliver it. Good body language and self-confidence ( alpha style) will always work.

    Good luck


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