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Thread: 9 online = 4 in person :`[

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    Default 9 online = 4 in person :`[

    Guys, I'm not proud of what I did tonight. It may haunt me for life, and if you're expecting good pickup advice, I suggest you stop reading now. If you have a morbid sense of humour and want a good laugh, here goes.

    Today was my day off so I started the morning banging HB cougar a few times. Amazing sex, amazing body, life is good. We chatted a bit about the other girls I'm seeing and other guys she's seeing... and both just basked in how cool it feels to be open and non-jealous.

    A few hours later and I'm finally going to meet HB wtf for the first time. We met on craigslist after I experimentally posted an ad that was basically a penis pic with "too busy for relationship, just want sex, blah blah blah". My usual style of writeup except I've never just posted my junk online and I wanted to see what would happen. She happened and nobody else (well aside from some nigerian prince who is going to make us both filthy rich or some such nonsense).

    Anyway we keep making plans to meet and for one reason or another they kept falling apart at the last second. Finally last night she fessed up that the idea of sex on the first meetup is freaking her out so I do the usual LMR stuff - we don't have to do anything, just come over and chat and cuddle.

    So she gets here, I'm stoked to see my sexy lil 9 but what came through my door was a 4 at most. Yikes, lady... I mean... are you a lady?

    So we chatted and I just continued gaming as if nothing was wrong. It's like I was in shock and just let myself run on autopilot because I literally do not remember how to just... not have sex. Autopilot for me is "Get inside her". So it was a pretty typical pickup, just very slow escalation and letting her lead as much as possible. I already knew everything about her and what turns her on just from our text convos so it wasn't long before we were having sex. Then we did it again in the butt, which was mentally better for me.

    Turns out she's an RMT and ended up giving one epic massage so that's one good thing that came out of this.

    She just left, I'm still in shock. Did I seriously just bang a 4? I can't remember the last time I went lower than 8.5.

    Damn you, Craigslist. *shakes fist* now I have to watch this (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZIcnBccjgMw) on repeat for a few hours.

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    Default Re: 9 online = 4 in person :`[

    After reading that I feel like I need to take a shower and brush my teeth and then I remembered that it sort of reminded me of one of the stories in Neil Strauss' s The Style Diaries, he reluctantly sleeps with this woman from his apartment building who is in her fifties, wears blood pressure socks, has varicose veins, and granny glasses, she is a wreck ......but when he runs into her a year later she had completely changed, she lost weight, got contacts, got her hair done, whitened her teeth ...... she looked really good and then he realized that him sleeping with her had unlocked and released something inside of her that changed her life ........ maybe you did the same thing ...... or at least you can hope that
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: 9 online = 4 in person :`[

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    After reading that I feel like I need to take a shower and brush my teeth and then I remembered that it sort of reminded me of one of the stories in Neil Strauss' s The Style Diaries, he reluctantly sleeps with this woman from his apartment building who is in her fifties, wears blood pressure socks, has varicose veins, and granny glasses, she is a wreck ......but when he runs into her a year later she had completely changed, she lost weight, got contacts, got her hair done, whitened her teeth ...... she looked really good and then he realized that him sleeping with her had unlocked and released something inside of her that changed her life ........ maybe you did the same thing ...... or at least you can hope that
    At the risk of sounding like a complete jerk for making this correlation, and actually stating this. I don't believe your scenario really works. I don't have anything against people who are less fortunate, but in the case of pan-handlers that could change their situation but choose not to, they will continue to not change their situation so long as people are willing to give them money.

    So long as women can get hot men to sleep with them, they will not strive to improve themselves. I have certainly never seen anything like PAU, or all the multiple systems, psychology etc for women to pick up on men. On the contrary, there only seems to be books and systems on how to better understand and KEEP a man. Or how to loose weight, or how to keep themselves from aging, etc.

    C....

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    Default Re: 9 online = 4 in person :`[

    ok what made you think that she was a 9? did she send you fake pics or did she self-describe herself as a 9?

    And I think it's safe to say that including a dickpic is always a TERRIBLE idea. We don't want a picture of your dick EVER!!! Don't sending dickpics is a bad idea 98.7632% of the time. I've literally never had any of my friends say stuff like "yeah he sent me a dickpic and it was sooooo hot," it's always "eww he sent me his dick wtf does he want me to say?"

    I'm pretty sure that putting up that picture was the sole reason that you attracted a human mutant. IMO you would've been better off with the Nigerian prince lol.

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    Default Re: 9 online = 4 in person :`[

    Of course the scenario works, Neil Strauss wrote about it in his book, there were several other examples in his book where he changed the when he slept with for the better and as we in the PUA community always say always leave them better then when you found them

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    Default Re: 9 online = 4 in person :`[

    Hmm never read that one, to be honest I didn't even get to the end of "The Game". Don't really care for Style. Maybe that'll happen, who knows!

    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletV View Post
    ok what made you think that she was a 9? did she send you fake pics or did she self-describe herself as a 9?
    Ya we exchanged pics, she probably photoshopped hers.


    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletV View Post
    And I think it's safe to say that including a dickpic is always a TERRIBLE idea. We don't want a picture of your dick EVER!!! Don't sending dickpics is a bad idea 98.7632% of the time. I've literally never had any of my friends say stuff like "yeah he sent me a dickpic and it was sooooo hot," it's always "eww he sent me his dick wtf does he want me to say?"

    I'm pretty sure that putting up that picture was the sole reason that you attracted a human mutant. IMO you would've been better off with the Nigerian prince lol.
    I always thought that too which is why I've never done it before but hey, you gotta try everything once.

    I tend to use text to get all girls horny to the point of wanting to have sex with me - that way by time they come to my house to meet me for the first time I know my job is a lot easier and we'll both be more comfortable with anything.

    Most never ask to see it so I never show, but there are a few pretty ladies that are a bit more forward and straight up ask to see it. Just, you know... it's never been part of my opener.

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    Default Re: 9 online = 4 in person :`[

    Honestly, I would stick to online dating sites than craiglists...this story...just reminds me of why I stay away...but maybe this is the only time this has happened to you? I don't know man.

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    Default Re: 9 online = 4 in person :`[

    In doing anything, regardless if you are trying to attract a girl or not, never say or do more than you have to.

    In including a dick pic, you are putting yourself out there, and have nowhere to escalate to. While bouncing, I always spoke with people in the lowest volume voice possible. There is a good reason for this, not only would it cause women to lean in closer, and enter my personal space, which I want if they are a HB, but also because whenever I did find a reason to raise my voice, people listened. Specially if people were about to fight, many times a quick assertive and louder "HEY, there is no fighting in here" caused the situation to diffuse right away.

    But putting yourself totally out there, literally your junk in the wind, you left no place for you to escalate anything. Hold back, only provide a face picture, make her ask for more so that she is engaging you. Then when she does ask for more, you can tell her that if you are going to send a picture showing your full body, that she must do the same, tit for tat, only fair, etc etc etc.

    Slow, progressive, escalation causes anticipation and a desire to see and know more. Plus it gives you the chance to ask to see and know more about her as well. This tactic might have saved you from ending up in the situation you did.

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