got a babe coming over for after dinner coffee etc... tomorrow night. when i rang her the other day she said monday was no good as she finishes work at 6pm so i said why not come over later in the evening and we can chat etc... she was cool with it
i dont know exactly what her ideas are though she seemed to play pretty hard for me. like when we swapped numbers she grabbed me and pulled me into a kiss... in my experiences they have sometimes been cool or cold the next time though i have some understanding now as to why that may have been
i find more and more these days the more compassionate i am to the chicks and the more attentive i can be i start to get it that we communicate differently. we have the same needs but we go about it differently and no party likes feeling stupid or used.
any advice from anyone what i could do to make her feel comfortable when she gets here tomorrow night. aside from all the obvious bravado, assume i like this girl whether i ever sleep with her or not. assume i want to create a friendship with her and i respect her. assume too that if we get into some good hard loving quite early in the whole thing then i couldn't be happier