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    Roguebuffalo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Had the best time of my life

    I had to work up the courage to go out after a dance social today. Very glad i did as I had the best time of my life. I was opening 2 and 3 sets with an opinion opener: hey ladies can I get your opinion on something, should a girl feel guilty giving her number out if she's in a relationship?" This worked incredibly well, and let to conversations with multiple groups. I opened a three set with this and was getting ioi's from an HB7. Her and I had great chemistry, but when it came time for her to leave, I tried to lead her to her car. She declined, saying she had a boyfriend, then I said judging by the way you're holding my hand, you must not have a boyfriend. She withdrew her hand and said it was nice meeting you, and goodnight. I was Kino'ing her from the beginning of the approach, and made sure to focus periodically on her friends while negging the target. The friends loved me, but I couldn't seem to seal the deal. What went wrong?

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    Sam981 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Had the best time of my life

    Hi. I am sure this isn't what you want to hear but what looks most probably was that the girl wasn't SEXUALLY attracted to you, even though she was having a 'friendly chat' with you. This is usually the problem with Opinion Openers. They start a good conversation but don't generate that sexual attraction. The way she pulled her hand off and said nice to meet you, this is only reason that could've 'went wrong'.

    Solution: Use a more direct approach or convey interest early on in the conversation. Also, its equally important to generate enough "Comfort" with the girl so that she gives you her number. If you haven't developed enough comfort, then this is likely to happen even if you've developed attraction.

    This is what I could deduce from your post.

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    Roguebuffalo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Had the best time of my life

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    Hi. I am sure this isn't what you want to hear but what looks most probably was that the girl wasn't SEXUALLY attracted to you, even though she was having a 'friendly chat' with you. This is usually the problem with Opinion Openers. They start a good conversation but don't generate that sexual attraction. The way she pulled her hand off and said nice to meet you, this is only reason that could've 'went wrong'.

    Solution: Use a more direct approach or convey interest early on in the conversation. Also, its equally important to generate enough "Comfort" with the girl so that she gives you her number. If you haven't developed enough comfort, then this is likely to happen even if you've developed attraction.

    This is what I could deduce from your post.
    Sam981, several times i have realized after the fact that I end up being too subtle with my intentions and end up focusing on her friends and teasing the target too much. I'll read some posts on how to convey interest and build comfort. Thanks


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