Ok guys so Friday night was my first time sarging and I posted a field report of it where I got some good feedback. Last night I wanted to put it into action so I went out with a good mindset. My goal was to simply have fun and open as many sets of random people, guys or girls, so that part of my game is second nature and also to simply try some direct flirts, even if not successful, to get over the idea of flirting with girls as being scared.
My friend and I go to a party. Immediately I broke a 4 set with 3 guys I didnt know and 1 guy I did just to get my social muscle warmed up so to speak. Good start. Im carrying the conversation and from any outside view it would look like Im leading the group.
But I end up breaking off a bit to go meet up with some of my other friends. A buddy of mine introduced me to his friend, lets call him Mexican since he said he was Mexican repeatedly. Now Mexican is not a pua or even aware of the community as far as I know but he's got the hungry "let's get bitches mentality" that I expect from one.
So I take advantage of the fact that I have a wing now with the same mindset as me so we got to this 3set with 2 HB6 and one HB7 and I use the "does my friend look like a drug dealer" opener. Worked beautifully. The wing had no idea what was going on but went with it and the girls were laughing except HB7 who clearly has sass and a huge Bitch Shield.
I tried to kino escalate HB7 and even negged her whenever needed but I wasnt getting through her bitch shield that easy. Luckily one of their friends came and joined in the conversation. Wow. So cute easily a HB8 with a great energy.
I shift my attention to her and I could tell she was the gem since she had 2 or 3 guys that I knew who were trying to get at her. I slide in the conversation make her laugh a few time and negged her with the " your nose wiggles when you laugh" and it worked wonders. She started giggling and covering her nose like she was shy. This girl was mine.
My friends were still going hard at her so to make myself be the exception I would build some attraction with some kino, unlike my friends who only made her laugh, and then I would back out the conversation for a bit back to the 3 set. I would come back in her set every now and then further escalating the kino
(Some examples of Kino Escalation that I did: "Omg you look like you're freezing" I grabbed her hand with both mine and rubbed them together, she grabbed back. Also I would every now and then put my arm around her when saying something funny, should put her arm around me back. This and several other basic kino touches on shoulder and arm. I got enough IOIs at this point.)
So we're about to leave the party and one of my friends gets her number but she said she wasnt interested in him when he left. And my wing did the same but also clearly could tell she wasnt interested.
I walked with her back to campus till we reached a mutual point. The whole time being cocky-funny but also making her qualify herself to me. She asked me what dorm I was in so I told her and added that if she impresses me enough I can bring her up and show her sometime. She was loving this. She teased back saying "I think my dorm is nicer anyway if you want to see"
I stopped the escalation here with a time constraint, got her number and left.
I went to the bar to see if I can carry on from the momentum and I talked to some upper classmen who liked me enough to get my details and invite me to their frat. Tried hitting on a couple girls but I neither got rejected or qualified so I was just being open at this point.
Nothing really worth noting past that tbh.
So to sum it:
What I did well:Met my goal, broke some of my shyness by opening random strangers and holding an interesting convo. Worked on my negs. Saw first hand the IOIs the girl will subconsciously display.
What needs improvement: Like last time, I did not know how to get at the girls on the dance floor that gave me looks or that I simply wanted to dance with.
Epiphanies / aha-moments: Definitely couldve kiss closed the girl at one point but I simply did not think that far ahead when the time came and by the time the window passed it came to me too late. Could've even gone up to her dorm come to think about it.
Goals for next night : Definitely want to work my way to a kiss close with atleast one girl, otherwise I want to continue working on opening sets and ways to dhv.