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    Default Sorry it's long... Will you please read this novel :)

    My night started off at one bar, where I bought cranberry juice, as I always do... it was slow... there were a few attractive bartenders and a two-set of girls sitting a couple seats down from me....

    I made some small talk with the bartenders, I think it was about Christmas and the bar.... then I said to the two-set, "is that good?" (the nachos that they were eating)... they said that it was.... I said that it looked very high in cholesterol and that I'm a health nut.... one girl (who was overweight) said that is very healthy despite the fact that she "looks like shit" (her own words)... I told her that people have different metabolisms and that some girls can eat the same thing and still be thin and that I couldn't put on weight if I tried..... then, some of the hot bartenders started talking to me about random things like the decorations they bought for the bar for Christmas.... I did notice in my interaction with the two girls that I need to PUSH AND BE AGGRESSIVE... no girl will ever take the lead to sex unless it is some freak, random scenario, which is not something you should count on.... if these girls were in any way receptive to sexual activity this night... I probably could have gotten it from them... I need to know how to PUSH and not be shy about asking for it, but I also need to know when is too soon too soon and what should I be finding out first? Mystery says it takes 7 hours... I haven't always found that to be the case, but maybe for the 9s and 10s, it is...

    For Christmas, my dad is buying an apartment complex and making me 24% owner and I can use this as a good opening line and display of value.... Christmas is a good environmental opener....

    I went to another bar where there is a bartender who I have known for some time.... I talked to her about the apartment complex I'm getting... she is about to have a baby... obviously she wouldn't be interested in having one with me because she is pregnant as we speak... and I don't think we would be right for each other anyway.... the point of this is that it's good to POLARIZE... and even if a hot girl polarizes the "wrong" way... that is okay.... it saved a lot of wasted time and energy....

    For the first time in a long time, I didn't feel like I was going to turn into the next Julian Blanc.... which is GOOD!!!

    I noticed that I should probably go out with people.... you can only be so social while sitting by yourself.... if I were truly the socially normal person that I should be... I would have lots of friends, right? So why don't I? (actually I do, but they aren't the type of people that I could go out to bars with)...

    In order to get a girlfriend, you must be socially normal and socially well liked... I noticed this today and for the first time in a long time, I felt actually capable of doing this... it is important to relate well to other guys as well...

    I have been questioning what exactly is the "social value" that these PUAs speak of... it's not like we can all run for president, right? I think I discovered today that they were just speaking of being a socially normal person who has crossed the "social hook point" with society in general... and of course they would want this, why wouldn't they? Why would they want to be with some socially awkward weirdo.... it may be rarer than you would think to be a socially normal person... there are a lot of weirdos out there and it's good not to be one...

    The purpose of any relationship is eventual reproduction... we can talk all kinds of PUA stuff, but let's be honest... there are people who devote their whole lives to earning money and supporting families in nice homes and having their kids go to nice schools, etc.... let's not negate this, please...

    I dressed nice. This is a must. It is no longer acceptable to go out even in a polo shirt. It must be a button down and I need to hit the gym and make my arms bigger... this is a must for those 10s...

    I talked to this one bartender who I've talked to before... she has a boyfriend who fights MMA and I had previously told her I was going to sign up.... so this time I told her about how it went, etc.... I overheard that she had only been with her boyfriend for 4 months and she showed me videos of him fighting... maybe he could beat me in an MMA gym... but I bet I could please her pussy better than he can... lol.... and if self-defense weapons were involved... well nevermind....

    At one point, I found that it should be necessary to be able to beat up any girl's boyfriend if I wanted to be with her.... I guess this is just testosterone and territory, etc.... like the one mountain goat who mates with all the girls because he has the biggest horns and thus best genes...

    Question.... how do you guys deal with polygamy? The goal of any PUA is multiple long term relationships... but is this reality? What girl, in REALITY... would want to be part of somebodies polygamy sect? I don't think this actually exists and if you have one... how long do you think it will last?

    One important thing about the conversation I was having about MMA with the bartender... at one point she said that she wanted to learn it because you never know what people out there might want to do something to her.... when she said that... I glanced away and I don't think she trusted me after that point.... it got me to thinking about my intentions.... Mystery says that any girl is very unlikely to invest in anyone with low social value or DUBIOUS INTENT... and I wonder why my intent may be dubious... I hope that you all can see that it's improving and I will not necessarily become the next Julian Blanc...

    It is important whether you mean them harm or not. Why would you? Where would this come from?

    It is important to befriend the social men, such as the restaurant managers, bouncers, etc... to show the females (and males) that you are no harm and that you can be trusted and that you are socially normal....

    Question to everyone.... how do you ask for sex without it being too forceful or "rapey?" How do you know when they WANT it... but they will probably never outright ask you for it.... I know that I have to lead the interaction to sex...

    At one point, the bartenders were talking about how much they spent on make up and it made me realize how pointless a lot of what they do is.... think about a woman in a delivery room giving birth... who cares about her make up at that point, right?

    I know the boyfriends of several of the hottest bartenders in town and I think I am better than them... I have more life experience, I am tougher, and probably more masculine at this point...

    At one point, I saw your typical aggressive drunk guy hitting on a girl... and perhaps it was slightly unwelcome... but I bet he got more than me that night.... because I am not AGGRESSIVELY hitting on them... and this is something that needs to change....

    At the end of the night... I was looking at some of the hottest women there... and I realized that you can't be all about sex... you truly do need to see them as something more than a hole to stick your dick in if you want to be with them... especially long term... unless she just happens to be looking for some at the moment...

    By the end of the night, I felt so confident that I could have walked up to the hottest girl in the biggest club in town and just asked for her number and walked off.... (just like how Ross Jeffries book describes it, even though I don't like that guy too much)...

    I also remember how LONG and arduous my days are when I'm just doing things at "work" and thinking about money and survival and this has to motivate me in the field because I can't puss out after all that...

    What are good excuses to get a girls number other than the obvious and crude.... "Can I have your number so maybe we can have sex later?"... that is not something you should actually say... What is some plausible deniability I could use for that?

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    Default Re: Sorry it's long... Will you please read this novel :)

    I was just reminded of something... once when I was younger... I was laying in bed with this girl and we didn't have sex... we were barely even friends... we laid there and talked and fell asleep... and wouldn't you know that she always contacted me at my birthday, etc. after that.... you have to be empathetic and not like you're sadistically out to do something to them...

    Sure, they like sex... but to be targeted 24/7 is probably a little overbearing to them.... but on the other hand... what else are we going to talk about... if you let them alone... they may just ask you for it.... (just like Mystery says)....

    Perhaps it's not about getting "laid" at all... maybe it's about being positive and lifting people up and just being a great person....

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    Default Re: Sorry it's long... Will you please read this novel :)

    One more thing..... at "work," I had to shovel shit that had backed up out of a septic tank....

    The contrast between that and seeing a beautiful smiling face on a beautiful girl at a club at night....

    It's like night and day...


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