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    Default First Report, Post Girlfriend Going Out Total AFC

    Quick intro before my report of my first two nights after breaking up with my girlfriend.

    I spent all last summer getting better with women and vowed not to be exclusive with any girl (I was a total AFC). Well I let this girl guilt me into a relationship, and shit a month or so in the sex gets spotty and I freak out like always. Well now I get the whole don't want to lose her feels, and now I am back to square one with my hand on my cock. Damnit.

    1st night

    A friend and I start out a kava bar. We are the only people there and I don't hesitate to instantly start chatting up the bartender. I tell her that her fake septum piercing is cute and she should get the real deal. We chat for like 30 minutes till a lull, and I see that I can't escalate from asking her about her random useless shit (Working, College). So I get a base of where I am at, say thank you, and leave to start the bars with my friends.

    We end up in the loud bars and shit hits the fan. I can't approach anybody, so I go play pool to get relaxed. Well, the anxiety doesn't stop. I keep making eye contact with this girl (she's with a dude and girl). You can guess I didn't do shit. We leave that club go to another and I start chatting up this girl from class and her friend. I keep it fresh and none of that normal conversation shit comes out. Its fun flirting and joking. She gives me her number, so I take it. Too bad I have no interest in these two girls. Then it hits, I start reminiscing about meeting my girlfriend, lock up, stand in a corner, and I don't approach for the next part of the night.

    Second

    My friend and I go out to the same places the next night, I approach some unattractive cougars. Goes well they told me they haven't felt that attractive in a long time. So I am feeling good just getting warmed up and all. Then I walk downstairs to start dancing, (that is the place I feel the most at home and where I meet most girls). I get dancing just having a good time, totally alone I don't give a fuck. Then I approach some groups, they don't show interest, I feel good for doing it anyway. Then I find a group of three while my friends walk in. They take the other two and I take one. We dance, tell her some jokes, she spins around with her back to her friends. Shes showed some ioi's so I go to isolate her. Then when she says okay, I panic because I don't know where the fuck to go. So I fuck up that interaction, sit her in a lighted place by the bar. Not really isolated, just away from her friends. I end the stale conversation on friendly terms, give a hug and go upstairs. That is when it hits again, my fresh ex keeps popping into my head and I can't approach for the rest of the night. FUCK. Some girls I know come up to me, I Number Close the one I'm interested in. But still I don't feel good about any of this. It should be exciting. It just felt monotonous and tiring.

    But I still have trouble escalating the conversation. I can neg and do shit tests. I need to plan where I pull a girl to. Where do you go after "I don't care where you work, what are you passionate about?"

    What are some conversation pieces you guys use to escalate?
    How do you get over a piece of ass so sweet you can't stop thinking about it?

    Note: I'm still new and have only been with two women

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    Default Re: First Report, Post Girlfriend Going Out Total AFC

    What's up man,
    To answer your question about escalation - There's a bunch of ways to escalate, but I'll share my favorite one with ya for the sake of simplicity.
    My favorite way is to blame it all on her. I find it delightfully entertaining.
    If she says something cute or smart or she starts throwing IOIs at you, say something like:
    "Are...you...try ing to seduce me?" Use those pauses, maintain powerful (but comfortable) eye contact and strong body language. Also, and this is VERY important. Say it with a little smirk on your face so she knows you're being playful.
    If there's a pause in the conversation I like to say:
    "No." She'll say "No, what?" You say "I'm...not. Going to. Make out with you."
    Same subcommunications as above. REMEMBER TO SMIRK! SO crucial. Wear that little mischievous smirk like a badge.

    You'll find that she's going to giggle and get filled up with emotions when you say these things, so then you lower the Tension a little bit by launching into a story about how "this one girl tried to make out with me like 20 times when I was walking her home, and how it got really annoying after awhile cuz I was just trying to get to bed, I had a big important day the next day. But this girl just would not stop! Jeez...I swear you girls only think about one thing...." haha! (this really happened to me, you can insert your own story if you want. Or you can use mine. I've only washed it a couple times, it's not too faded and it still smells good)
    For the seduction question, i mean if she answers "yes" that's an obvious ioi, if she just gets flushed, that's another IOI, if she answers "No" then you answer with "Thank god, it would never work out between us, we're both waaay too charming." Then just keep the convo going with a light story about yourself or an observation of the world around you "Look at those dudes glasses, you think they have x-ray?" keep it light and playful.

    How do you get over a sweet piece of ass?
    Two options:
    1.) You occupy your time and your mind with something you're really passionate about/do something you love to do.
    2.) You go out and get a sweeter piece of ass.
    3.) Split your time between both. <<Boss move.

    Hope that helps get you started, brother!
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    Default Re: First Report, Post Girlfriend Going Out Total AFC

    Cool man those tips seem pretty simple and straightforward. I'll try them out and see if I can't get a triumphant report next time. I appreciate it.


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