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Thread: Am I Gamma

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    Default Am I Gamma

    Not sure I am posting this in the right forum, but 'Field Reports' was the closest match I could find.

    I kicked out two girlfriends these last few days.

    The first I have banged twice. She gave lots of resistance from the start. On our first date we just drove around for hours, she didn't want to go for a walk, she didn't want to come to my flat, she didn't want me to touch her, I got no kiss.
    The second night I banged her, but she was giving resistance from the moment I picked her up, same thing no touching, no kisses, claimed she had the period etc. I even at one point told her that I was taking her home. We had almost reached her house when she wanted to come back home with me. In the end I managed to squeeze my c*** inside, and then she loved it.
    Third night was slightly easier, but still extremely hard work.
    Fourth night, I picked her up we bought some food (she doesn't drink), when we came inside I kissed her, but she resisted and wanted to eat first. During the meal she was rubbing her feet up against my legs. After we finished eating she again became defensive. So I went into the bedroom, laid down on the bed and told her to come and be nice to me. She kindoff poked me a bit with a finger said she doesn't know how to massage and in general kept a distance, so I turned my back towards her and ignored her. She then laid down at the bed, but not next to me, and when I tried to pull her over she refused. After a while she fell asleep. When she woke up a couple of hours later she seemed very sheepish. I was sitting in the sofa with my feet up, working on my laptop. She laid her head at my feet, but didn't come within reach, so I ignored her again. After a while she went back into the bedroom. A bit later I went in and offered to drive her home. We didn't talk all the way to her place. I dropped her off, said politely good night and that's the last I heard from her.

    The other girl, is a similar story, but I have never f***** her. The cycle we go through is something like this: She tries to engage me, I try to ignore her. Over time I soften up. I take her out, she never gets close enough for some serious Kino. After a couple of weeks or more we start fighting. I ignore her or otherwise show passive-agressive behaviour. She tells me she will not play by my rules and she is a free person (I don't think she has others she just isn't happy about me telling her what to do). I tell her I agree and we both then agree to stay apart. Then the cycle starts over again. If she isn't able to pull me in with normal flirting she just upps the game and finds some other excuse to involve me like suddenly being sick, shivering with high fever. Of course then I soften and come to her res cue like a good little puppy dog. As soon as she is well enough for me to start hitting on her she keeps just enough distance again for me not to be able to break through.

    So my question is: Since my reaction in every case is to ignore them and be passive-agressive when they don't behave as I want them to behave, does it mean that I am a Gamma? I must say I find it difficult to be non-reactive because they will just worsen their behaviour until I turn my back on them.

    Does anyone have any good advice how I might change my behaviour?


    Thanks for any input
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    Default Re: Am I Gamma

    Passive-Aggressiveness is the trademark of a beta. Alphas state their intents, likes and dislikes clearly, within reason. If she does something you don't like, say "I don't like that", with clear body language asserting your dominance. If she can't handle that, find a new girl.

    Seems like you managed to find a pair of damaged ones, though. For the second one I would literally freeze her out. Since she refuses to go anywhere near what a real relationship should be like, next time make it clear you two are "just friends", talk about other girls you're seeing (real or not real), avoid anything flirty at all costs, and emphasize that she's "just a friend" or even "sisterlike." So go out with her but make it painfully obvious she means nothing to you anymore. Don't stop with that until she's taking your clothes off or is tired of messing with you.

    Crazy bitch was probably fucking some other dude on the side anyway, happened to me before.

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    Default Re: Am I Gamma

    Thanks for the input and sorry for being so late to reply. Haven't been on the forum for a few months.

    The situation has kinda resolved, or stabilised with both girls. The first one I didn't hear from for a couple of months, then she started contacting me back, but I told her her that I didn't sense genuine interest from her side when we were seeing each other, so I would like her to leave me alone. She tried again a couple of times with about a week between the attempts, but I politely dismissed her every time. So now I haven't heard from her for a few weeks, which is fine.

    The other one I see regularly. I haven't bragged about other girls, but she knows that I have others because a mutual friend has told her. She still is very flirty, but I just ignore her. Don't laugh at her jokes, and turn my back on her and start doing something else if she persists. (Yes I know it is still passive-aggressive behaviour, but what to do. We have common friends so we often are in the same setting, and we are both quite domineering, and I definitely don't want to get dragged into a situation where she is leading the conversation and I have to follow).

    I have since picked up another girl that I sleep with regularly, plus I had two others from before, so although above two endeavours didn't go quite as I was planning to, things are stable and I still am getting sex from three girls.

    What I need to learn though is how to avoid the passive-aggressive behaviour and not cut them out completely, but instead be open and inclusive yet still dominating. So somehow signal that they are welcome to hang around, but there is no intimacy without sex.

    Thanks again for the input
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    Default Re: Am I Gamma

    Actually....
    The last part of what I just wrote is nonsense. I don't need to be open and inclusive if they don't want to sleep with me. I'm king of my own little kingdom, if they want to enter my kingdom, they do so as concubines. If they behave and have more going for them than just a pussy they may be elevated to queens. If they don't want to be concubines they don't enter my kingdom. If they don't enter my kingdom, they are women of the enemy, and they don't get any favours.

    That's it.

    If they are lucky I could take them as war boothy I guess


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