Re: Lay Report: 2 bathroom pulls in a row and crazy sex parties...
All your lessons are on point.
Leading and Momentum work hand in hand, If you get her to respond without second thinking. you will always succeed, so always have roll into the next part quickly.
(hand out to shake(Kino), Smile on face(ice breaker,dissarm, defence destroyer) Hi, Im Tyrone, Whats your name?
She gives Name. (Responds -she is getting used to giving me what I demand)
Quick reply: I walked over her to tell you that you look amazing, Those Jeans were made for your body. (direct, establish intention, Compliment, then genuine compliment).
She replys: (in shock because guys compliment but not genuinely/Flattery/Not sure how to receive compliment) Thank you.
Quick reply: (pull phone out and put it close to her - Physical lead) Give me your number - Verbal lead.
She gives number. (responds)
I may put her name under something silly, like Anna - Amazing Jeans. (sense of humor) Call her and tell her to pull her phone out - Lead.
She pulls it out, I save my name as something way too confident and direct "Guy with balls to approach me" (setting up for later when she see's my text or call that she can associate the Best part of the experience with me).
Then Quickly,Again: Lean abit closer put side of cheek to her - physical lead, give it a tap - Physical lead.
She kisses me on the cheek. (responds)(kino)
Quickly after while she is pulling back i start saaying: Dude!! your lips are so soft and amazing, come here (Detailed Compliment/Direct/Verbal command) (Lean in abit, point to lips, same as cheek).
We K-close by her coming the rest of the way (She responds by leaning in the rest of way, Gives me what I want,Kino, Escalation)
(BY THIS TIME ITS ONLY BEEN ABOUT 2-3 MINUTES SINCE I APPROACHED IF THAT).
Quickly after: I'm going for a (ciggerette,Drink(I dont buy girls drinks but put this here for you), see my friend - optional) Lets go. (Puts arm behind her mid/lower back to guide her or out for her to grab, grab her hand) - physical lead
She will either respond or say: I dont smoke or Whatever.
I say: Good(reward for good behavior) you can watch me then (with cheeky smile) - Flirting, Naughty, Intriguing. (Maintain Physical leading with arm/hand)
We get to location. (which is now a new experience or Second time(builds comfort quicker, subconsciously aswell - better then rapport does)
(maybe been 4-5 minutes since Approach)
After abit of Flirting/Kissing and Kino VVVV
I say: Usually I don't approach girls in clubs (defense destroyer, doesn't think i'm a player), But you I wanted to. (Alpha does what he wants, Makes her feel special). I hope your a fun enough person to hang out with, Are you? (qualifier)
She responds with justification.
I say: Prove it (with smile), lets go! (verball command)(puts arm out - physical lead which she has allready responded to).
She grabs arm and says: Where are we going?
I respond: Not to mine, can you relax, how keen are you? (with cheeky smile) we are just going up the road, You will know the place and love it once we walk in, and if you have never been there, we will find you new parents - with cheeky smile (Close by - comfort, You know the place - comfort, you'll love it - Comfort/Intriguing, Once we walk in - associated as we, not just her, or I but associating subconciously that we are something + Leading, If you havent been/find new parents - Qualifier for family that she cant respond to but because its associated with family it is associated with her making her feel like if she hasn't experienced it there is something wrong with her. Plus im maintaining the mystery by not telling her where we are going which is intriguing, mystery, Exciting.)
Flirt on walk there, Put my arm around her for Kino, Stop and make out on the way or at the lights, Make her feel special with Genuine compliments and Neg her on other stuff.
Get to Location (usually really fun like a game centre, Pancakes on the rocks, Bowling, Laser tag anywhere that 24 hours & she can buy drinks if you and she is drinking) - this step is skipped if its late and you are satisfied that you got dressed, had fun and can close, but if I go out and do this early on not being satisfied that the purpose of coming out wasn't met and just going to f-close, im in the mood to do something to satisfy that part of me which is usually the case because Its better to approach early then be the 147 jack ass to try hit on her that night. You make that judgement call depending on what you want to do.
Have some fun, Plus some friendly competition. while flirting and kino.
Then go outside, reestablish Kino, then I pull over a cab, open the door for her and step to the side inline with the door to create a pathway leading to the door and say "Lets go"
She gets in due to all leading and also doesn't want to waste the cab drivers time.
Give my address to cab driver. He starts driving
She asked: were we going?
Tell her: Mine (then K-close) and escalate with physical rubbing on theigh - finger bang in cab.
Get to mine and she knows why we are there.
(We continue this fling until I get bored/See qualities I dont like/she gets too needy, which is usually between 3 weeks & 3 months) I prefer flings because if I go out and Get laid all the time I will get exhausted and probably get a disease. Plus It works out great for them, They enjoy the honeymoon period which is the best bit of a relationship - with no complications or fighting (plus you meet there friends usually they will add you on facebook aswell). So to them they have associated you with an awesome experience(which is free marketing - girls talk). So a year later they will either contact you again or you can re-approach (by reminiscing all the good times causing her to feel them again) until you release what stopped you didn't get serious the first time. Then do it again another year later. Or Because she has told her friends about the amazing experience she has had, and you have created a bridge of contact through facebook, they may approach or you can. Plus flings have more in it then one night stands although if i get really drunk i have one night stands but because in australia we have had a lot of women accuse football players of raping them when they went back and had sex to try get fame or money and the nice place I live in, my Income and it being my word against hers, I get paranoid that this will happen, But if i create fling situation she will be less inclined to do that because she wants to continue this, and I get all that excitement from Honeymoon period.
Always Lead and momentum.
Knowing your surroundings is a good point you made lol: I took a girl to bathroom once, and it had a camera in a hallway so about 3 minutes in i hear BANG! BANG! BANG! 4 security guards yelling get the f out. We both got kicked out. Which I had to reject handle heaps to get her to come to mine after a massive embarrassment like that to her. Managed to come up with "wtf is wrong with them putting a camera outside the bathroom anyway, manager is probably a pervert. (which seem to point the finger at them and not us, easing the embarrassment, but the sexual tension was killed and sex was pretty Average. So i never did that again. Always take back to mine. which for small time flings which I enjoy I can engage in the morning to ensure all things are ready and established for the next time we meet. Plus my Room is heaps nice (dhv) I/we can cook breakfast (DHV/Fun). Living room is Nice, open to huge backyard, Big ass TV, Nice couches, opens to kitchen so can continue communication(DHV) (Engagement during separation) I live in a Really Nice Area (DHV). Clean house (DHV) clean the breakfast dishes (DHV) SHirt is usually off in morning because of last night and appropiate to put atleast pants on in morning if walking around house but still able to project my comfort ability in my house which is Alpha and show her my physical Qualities that is just a bonus, that she couldn't fully appreciate with her eyes the night before.
Never leave your set is very important but I dont think anyone would leave there set, not for long enough to gamed anyway. Just go bathroom quick smart then come back. Any other time is an opportunity to lead like get drinks, ciggy, which is far more productive then leaving set.
Pull the trigger also very important: alot of threads lately of guys realizing a girl is into him after its too late, AFC shit, not making the move/escalation in time, and by the time they realize it is way to late. Her attraction for you is lost because you didn't be a man. Then they join this forum and we tell them the hard truth so they can learn and not make the same mistake, and help them get that girl.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.