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    Default Re: Messed up with an older woman

    She's an older woman and to be honest I'm not entirely sure she knew what she was saying when she said "hook up." I think to her it just meant get together not have sex. Or maybe it's a secret code word women use that I'm not aware of regardless of her age. It does seem to me that younger women would think it would mean sex but not older women. I could be wrong though. I just don't think an older woman would say it like that because she wouldn't want to seem slutty.

    All I'll say is despite the fact that it's all a game I do think people at some point need to make it clear what their intentions are. I see nothing wrong with saying "well don't get your hopes up because I"m not really looking for something serious." They're going to find out sooner or later so why piss them off later when I can just weed out those who are only interested in ltrs. They can't label me a player with a straight face if they **** me when they already knew what my intentions were.

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    Default Re: Messed up with an older woman

    To me that is the whole point of the game, is to get to a place where you can stop playing the game.

    Players lie, and manipulate girls into sleeping with them, Pick Up (to me) is about making a girl want to sleep with you with out doing either of those things. Women are just as horny as Men, so its not difficult to find someone who wants what you want, you're right, at some point during this dance, you will have to communicate what you want, and the difference between Direct Game, and Indirect Game is how you go about doing it.

    I just lost a friends with bene. a week ago, but the three women I was seeing, including that girl, knew that I was seeing other women, they wanted to keep seeing me because we all wanted friends with benefits in the first place. Of the two girls I'm seeing now, one of them, I know for a fact is sleeping with other guys, and I accept that.

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    Default Re: Messed up with an older woman

    And when you go to the clinic everyone who works there knows your name(and the women too). I'm kidding and not saying that in a mean way but you have to be careful when you sleep with more than one woman.

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    Default Re: Messed up with an older woman

    Condoms man, they are a thing.
    Like they explain in school, when you decide to sleep with some one, you will be exposed to every one else they have slept with up until they slept with you, so you can sleep with one at a time or multiple, you're still exposed to the same crap.

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    Default Re: Messed up with an older woman

    Update:

    I finally heard back from this woman via a text. She said that she was busy packing because she is in the process of moving(something I already knew)and will get in touch after she is settled in. I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt so I won't ignore this message. However, I will still wait a few days before responding.

    Nonetheless, I still feel I messed up with the phone message. I won't say something like "thanks for giving me a second chance" or anything that puts the ball in her court or gives her leverage or power(don't women have enough of that already? ). So yeah I will play it cool and won't be outcome dependent no matter what happens.

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    Default Re: Messed up with an older woman

    I wouldn't ignore her, when you have time just text her back tonight, if you ignore her that's just rude, and it'll just go back and forth, before long both parties will get bored and that'll be the end.

    The key is to maintain your Alpha status while communicating with her.
    I would just take her message at face value, she said she was busy with a legitimate reason. You have no proof that she was messin with your head, so just go with it. You contacted her, she contacted you back, so talk her up and be patient, when you get a chance set up a meeting.
    You also have no idea if she is actually giving you a second chance, or if you're still on your first chance, so don't assume that.
    This is my approach, but you do your thing man, good luck.

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    Default Re: Messed up with an older woman

    No. I will eventually say something. She said she would get back to me so there's no hurry for me to get back to her. I'm not going to be jumping through hoops here but I won't be rude either. However, she needs to know that she doesn't have me on a string and that I will get back to her when I want to not when she expects me to(which is obviously what she has done).


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