Re: Messed up with an older woman
You have really missed an opportunity there, as I also know a Woman who also has a Cat and while I can't say that I think She would make a great Girlfriend, She too is in her 50's and while She is a little bit 'Posh' for want of a better word.
She is also determined not to grow old gracefully and as such is a bit 'Naughty' and Flirts whenever we meet.
In another Post of mine, I mentioned that I have Shaved all my hair off (as I was starting to look like a Monk) but now look a real 'Bad Ass' and am starting to act like one to!
Even though there is a nice guy hiding underneath.
Keep in mind this Woman has a Cat.
She reckoned I looked such a 'Bad Ass' that I ought to Audition for the part of a Bad Guy, in a James Bond Movie.
Then She said, that if I put on a White Suit I could play the part of Bloefeld, to which I replied that's a great idea but only if I can have your 'Pussy' sitting on my lap.
Which had her in fits of laughter that just wouldn't stop and I know I could have had her if I'd really wanted to and with the benefit of hindsight think maybe I should but it didn't feel right so I didn't.
So you could have done a similar thing and told your friend you wanted to see her 'Pussy' and then see what She came back with.
For all you know She may have been a lot more interested than you think.
The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least