Re: Got a number last night
Yeah I normally don't screw it up no longer when I get the number. But THEM screwing up is a different matter altogether....
Anyway they have been asking for my number lately anyway and I know how to wing it. My phone game has changed a lot from when I started out. I always text and never call anymore. I have noticed calling they get super freaked out unless it is really really necessary. Like I texted my homegirl and then called her to ask where she was at.
BUT calling to ask a girl out or to tell her you like her SHOULD NEVER HAPPEN
Either way I know how to use numbers much more effectively now. I just be myself. Say whatever I want go through the motions, and go through intermitten periods of silence. I noticed texting them everyday is a sure fire way to look needy and thus fall into the Ghosting deathtrap.
What's worse when getting the Ghosting deathtrap is "aiming for a response" that is the best way to kill attraction. I don't aim for reponses I assume. Yeah girls don't respond sometimes but they respond much more than they used to.
So I text girls way way less frequently but I get way way more responses. Because after all I am doing what I want and not really telling them I like them making them uncomfortable. Just asking them to hang out or whatever.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.