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    Default Re: Got a number last night

    Yeah I normally don't screw it up no longer when I get the number. But THEM screwing up is a different matter altogether....
    Anyway they have been asking for my number lately anyway and I know how to wing it. My phone game has changed a lot from when I started out. I always text and never call anymore. I have noticed calling they get super freaked out unless it is really really necessary. Like I texted my homegirl and then called her to ask where she was at.

    BUT calling to ask a girl out or to tell her you like her SHOULD NEVER HAPPEN

    Either way I know how to use numbers much more effectively now. I just be myself. Say whatever I want go through the motions, and go through intermitten periods of silence. I noticed texting them everyday is a sure fire way to look needy and thus fall into the Ghosting deathtrap.

    What's worse when getting the Ghosting deathtrap is "aiming for a response" that is the best way to kill attraction. I don't aim for reponses I assume. Yeah girls don't respond sometimes but they respond much more than they used to.

    So I text girls way way less frequently but I get way way more responses. Because after all I am doing what I want and not really telling them I like them making them uncomfortable. Just asking them to hang out or whatever.
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    Default Re: Got a number last night

    Side note-Sarging next weekend after meeting up with the Stripper
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: Got a number last night

    Quote Originally Posted by Mike413 View Post
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    I sent this woman a text sometime yesterday in the early evening. I have not heard back from her and to be honest don't expect to. It's all good. Her loss.
    I have read in a couple of places that numbers are almost meaningless without some real solid ioi. Some girls just give it out to be rid of a guy. (sorry to rain on your first number achievement. But in fairness, you did arm twist to get it.)
    I am still at the simple interaction phase. I have not even asked for a number. Though I do regret the idea not occurring that time I was chatting to a very nice lady at of all places, the gas station. LOTS of IOI. But having read what I have read, I won't be too excited when I do get a number. Frankly I'd probably like to be a FB friend first. While I generally hate FB, it is kind of cool, and telling. If the girl posts stuff now and then, you can learn a lot. You can get where her head is at, and where the heads of her friends are at. Or even see posts and opinions that completely turn you off. Then you can skip investing time. Or any time invested will simply be to get laid, but not for a relationship. Or simply use her for practice knowing that you really don't have any solid interest.


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