Re: She didn't feel a connection during sex (FRIEND ZONED)
What I would call really nice girls don't do one night stands, although I know that some of them are able to be persuadesd, after a few drinks.
From a girls perspective She ideally want to fall head over heals in Love with a guy before Sex but in the digital age in which we live with things like 'Tinder' and 'Facebook' things tend to move a lot faster than they ever did before, which can put girls under pressure to get it on with a guy, much sooner than they may feel comfortable with.
But generally speaking its hard for a girl to try and fall in love with a guy, if she feels that he's just after sex, as they would much prefer it if they were taken on some sort of a romantic journey, where they could finally give themselves to that guy, which is the Total opposite of a One Night Stand.
So I would suggest you experiment with the more romantic option, of taking a girl out to dinner or for a drive in the Car, where you don't initially go any further than kissing, unless of course she gets so turned on that she makes it very obvious that she wants to go all the way.
Though ideally get to know her and romance her first, so she doesn't get the impression that you are only after one thing and give her a little gift like a box of Chocolates, as girls really dig that kind of shit and think that you care. (regardless of whether you actually do or you don't)
If you don't last very long in bed, then it is very important to spend a long time on foreplay of about an hour, then when you actually do the deed, she will take the time you spent both on foreplay and sex and then combine the whole experience together in her head.
Where She will convince herself that you made love for hours (not seven minutes) the reason being that's what She wants to believe.
The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least