I'm writing this fuzzy headed from the night before and tired from a lack of sleep after dropping girl 2 home (after breakfasty lunch of course).
I went out last night, I recruited my sister and her boyfriend as my wings for the night. We started with a few drinks in a nice bar as it started to get busier. We discussed what I was trying to achieve and I explained how poor I am at chatting up women.
We moved to the next bar, that's louder and has great music and atmosphere. Walking in I caught a very attractive older woman's eye, I winked and smiled and she smiled and scrunched up her face teasingly back.
Me and my sis/bf had a few drinks taking in the surroundings. This is the first time i've been to a nice bar with hot women since I've been single. I now realise how much attention I get walking through a place. Still not approaching anyone.
As I have a few more drinks I start to loosen up, (my sister couldn't believe how much more confident I get after a few drinks). We go and hover by the woman who's eye I caught. I make eye contact again and stand next to her and say hi. She comments on how good looking my sister is at which point I start getting my cocky funny persona flowing and point out how alike we look etc. We exchange banter, she asks my sister how old she thought she looks.....my sister Kindly said 32 (complete lie she was around 40). At which point I frowned and laughed so she could see my disapproval. In hindsight this was a neg.
I think my sister was surprised at how confident I had gotten and actually how outrageous I could be to woman but because I was laughing and joking about it was all taken very well. This point in the night my confidence was soaring. Drunk enough to be confident but sober enough to be quick thinking and charming.
This is where it got interesting.
I had been texting a friend (Girl 1) I used to work with, she was in clubs 10 mins away. We had already suggest drunken wrestling so she knew what was on the table. I was trying to get her to come and meet me. I text her if she wanted to wrestle? She replied with 'I do'. Game on!
While this was happening I caught eyes with a pretty blonde (Girl 2) from across the room. On second look I realised I knew her fas one of my mates clients. I bought myself a drink and walked over we started chatting. I had an advantage here, I've never spoken to her however she knows me and I know she fancied me and she knows people in common.
My sister signals that they are leaving, I said I was going to stay as I was trying to get Girl 1 to meet me in town.
Girl 1 texts me saying she's coming in, I said I would meet her at another bar as to avoid an awkward moment with Girl 2. In the meantime I'm back chatting with Girl 2, good girl great chat nice and easy to talk to. She asks what I was doing and I said I was going to meet a friend (preparing to ask for her number).
THEN....girl 1 walks in with her mate all smiles.....SHIT!.... . I also forgot girl 1 and 2 know each hahah I thought well this is going to be interesting. It was! We all started drinking together. It was ok, but I was stealing glances off of each and touches here and there. It was clear they both wanted me....I had no idea what I was doing!....Girls 1 friend came close to me and said 'you're in a situation now aren't you?' haha it was clear these two girls were all over me. I noticed 3 guys who had been sat at the table we were standing near, trying to chat up the older woman i was flirting with earlier in the night now observing the situation I had found myself in......I have to say I was having fun haha
Lots more drinks and Girl 2's friend approaches me and says something similar about my situation still I had no idea what to do.
So we move to the end club. Now I really don't know. I kiss Girl 1 around a corner and asked if we are going to mine or hers. She says hers. She asks what i'm going to do about girl 2. I said i'll sort it. It was getting awkward.
I spoke to Girl 2 and said look 'I'm guna be honest, Girl 1 came to meet me with the idea we were going home together, I obviously didn't plan on meeting you but that was a nice surpise. Can I have your number to continue this another night?" She was really fine about it said she understood and put her number into my phone.
This was weird I think all the people there, Girls 1 & 2 and both their friends/partners had seen me kiss both girls at various stages. I had no idea how I was getting away with this and it looked like I was going home with Girl 1 and had Girl 2's number.
This is where I was uncommonly brave and no holds barred inn my approach. I said to Girl 1 are we going back to yours? She giggle and kissed me and said yes, but mentioned something about not having sex. I said wait a moment, seriously? She said she wanted to but it was the first time since her ex and was in two minds about it. I said look lets wait then, I'm not going to pressure you into it, you seem unsure and you're drunk. She wanted me to come back still, I said "I'm not coming back to cuddle you" (this was way out of character for me but felt based on the nights activities it was appropriate) So she was still unsure.
As we left the club, Girl 1 was suggesting we all go back to her house for more drink! Me Girl 1 & friend and Girl 2.....I don't think so!
I suggest Girl 1 goes home with her friend while I make sure Girl 2 gets in a taxi. We parted.
I was now alone with Girl 2. She was laughing at me saying I had been playing a dangerous game. I agreed and admitted i'm new to this and have no idea what the fuck i'm doing haha
We kissed and I said 'you have to meet my dog' she replied 'yes i'd like that' I said 'great' grabbed her by the hand and led her to the taxi. She said 'what now?'. I replied smiling "yes of course now!'.
So after telling her I was going to go back with Girl 1 then changing plan I was now taking Girl 2 home with me.
We spent the rest of the night f*cking and laughing at me and my new found Singledom and how I'm going to get myself in all sorts of trouble.
I don't think she was wrong haha
If I can learn to be braver approaching new women that I don't have some prior contact with and take my Cheeky Chat and Charm that I used last night with them I think I would be golden.
Last night was a great confidence boost for me. Next outing is Friday I believe.