Hey Guys, I rarely post anymore. Let's just say I have an abundantly full life.
Any way, I had an experience that I just had to share. I went out with Chris Haven, and it had been a while so I decided to give the skills a little test to see if I still have it. I roll in to the club and Chris is in set with a girl we had met a few weeks earlier. She has a friend that is hovering so I step into wing man role.
I introduce myself, and say "So tell me something. Imagine that you have a boyfriend. You cheat on said boyfriend, and you decide that you can't handle the guilt, and you confess. What response are you expecting?"
She says, "Well cussing, screaming, you know the worst."
"How would you respond if he didn't really say anything, didn't act upset and banged your brains out for a week straight?"
Feel free to use that one. At this point we are in conversation and she moves into interview questions.
I answer only one and tell her "Look, you're going to meet thousands of people in your life and it's always going to go the same way, What do you do? Where are you from? So we aren't going to do that tonight."
Her "Okay" big smile
Me. "You meet two twins and it's love at first sight. One can give you all the financial comfort in the world. The other makes you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. Who do you choose?"
After the first question I bounce her to a secluded spot away from Chris and his girl and continue with my five questions.
I learn that she is a juvenile drug abuse counselor, that she's only having one drink tonight, and that she loves these thought provoking questions. She asks how I came up with them and I explain that I gave up electronic entertainment for 2 years and I really learned to appreciate the richness of the human experience that most of us bury in a haze of electronic noise. I told her the most powerful technique I learned was called kokology and asked if she ever heard of it. She said no, and I told her I could know you as well in 5 minutes as well as someone who has known you for 5 years.
Of course that's chick bait and she excitedly tells me to go for it, but warns that she is very difficult to read. I run the Castle with lots of teasing and some light Kino. She eats it up. I can tell she's along for the ride, hook line and sinker.
For those of you that don't know my style is indirect / direct. Well it's time to go sexual. I explain that the castle is a very superficial read. If she wasn't careful, I could know her as intimately as a lover, but that's at her own risk. Forget the chick bait, that was chick crack. She practically forced me to read her.
I run the Hidden Room, with heavy kino, eye contact, and a very sexual vibe. When I finish she looks at me and almost whispers, "I feel exposed. I feel so exposed."
She tell me she needs the ladies room and please don't leave. She grabs Chris' girl and they head off. I move to where Chris is and he, I, and D chat it up. Finally Chris says, "They've been gone a long time." I think to myself, "Hmmm, that's weird".
Finally they return and she won't look me in the eye. Ok....I continue talking to D and she finally wanders away. As soon as she's out of earshot, her girlfriend says "WTF did you say to her? She went to the bathroom and cried. She said shes never felt more exposed and you could do whatever you want to her."
Chris, bossed up and addressed his girl, "Kino is the best I've ever seen. Your girl just couldn't handle it."
She then said her friend takes pride in being difficult to read, and she has walls like the one in game of thrones.
I tried to re-approach and she would not look at me. Screw it. I start opening more sets and eventually Chris and his girl come and stand in my area. She follows and while I'm in a two set with D, she is looking, er staring at me. Full on puppy dog eyes, never turns her head to play it off, just staring. I kid you not she watched my every move for 10-15. I decide to throw D a bone and help him flirt with the hot chick in the two set. Once he's on solid ground, I eject.
I figure she's come around and I approach Chis and his girl talk to them and finally turn towards her, she dropped her head and eyes and walked out of the club. She called Chris' chick and told her she was ready to go.
The next morning Chris calls me and says "Dude you effed that chick up.", His girl dropped of my girl after the club. While they were on the way, Chris' chick asked if I had did something, or said something because her behavior didn't make any sense. Her reply as it was told to me, "I didn't go to meet anybody. I didn't expect to meet anybody. I didn't want to have sex with anybody. (Who said anything about having sex?) He had me. He totally had me."
Fellas, I have failed many times, many ways, both large and small failures, but this is one is a whole new frontier of failure for me.