ok well this last weekend i went to kansas to meet up with a girl. It was so much fun and she stayed in the hotel with me. My question is actually on techniques to loosen her up sexually. We tried sex but i was to big to fit. It hurt her a lot and to be truthful, she was so tight it kind of hurt me as well. I was wondering if you guy have any techniques so i dont have that problem next time i see her.???