Hey, this is my first post. Last night, I hung out with this girl. We went for a walk on my campus. I took her to this secluded spot, in between evergreen trees to stargaze.
As we were walking, we just talked. Then when I saw the trees, I said "Oh, there they are!" I grabbed her hand and walked her to the trees. Then we got to the spot, and I put my arm around her. She rested her head on my shoulders. She talked about the sky or something stupid, and as soon as her voice trailed off, I turned around in front of her, pulled her in, and leaned in for the kiss.
She retracted her head, however.... and she told me that she had a guy that she was kinda with. She said that she would kiss me, but she didn't want to hurt my feelings or something. Like she didn't want me to become emotionally invested.
At the time, I was not sure if she meant that, or if she was just saying that as a veil for her real just prudeness or whatever.
Anyway, I kept thinking to myself, who cares if there's another guy? Just kiss me. But I didn't know how to convey that. And I was too nervous to try a line or something that would get that point across, because if she really just didn't want to kiss me no matter what, then she'd prob think I was a real creep for going for the kiss twice.
Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should have said/done? I talked to my roommate... ha he told me I should have spoken something in French to her. Then she would ask what that means and I'd say "it doesn't matter" and then kiss her. But that probably wouldn't work cuz it's super stupid. So any suggestions?