i can think of a few of my own at present. good knowing that other PU dudes are posting stuff like this as it is very easy to play into a corner. posting like this helps me spin out of those tight runs i play myself into.
my situations are a bit different but i guess there are always a few on my list that i really LIKE. babes come and go and quite regularly i meet girls i really dig (and respect). I don't know that one-itus is too necessary but i was with one tonight who i have some affection for and she digs me. we are playing a few courting games and i like her. i don't dream of her being the one or any of that shit but i wouldn't tear her heart out and move on.
i think you are right in setting up the relationship right. it is what we do say and that we don't set someone up to be disappointed if we knew they would be upset by our conquest.
i ain't too stressed about the girls i am hanging with, flirting with, playing with, and grooming for sex. my concerns are improving the s&r value in the area of my wealth. i like mystery's breakdown of the world of the pua or human actor. he draws those distinct areas of health, wealth, and love. my health and love have improved but my wealth needs to do likewise for me to raise the others and get myself moving further.
of course i am sure that 2 of the babes i am grooming for sex may help me get my savings account back up again
yeah crob this is the sorta shit going through my mind at the moment.... don't know if you draw the association but i agree with you looking at the whole picture and our life plots