ok ill be up front and just say i fucked up now. i was an AFC with this chick but just needed someone to bounce ideas off of. So i had been talking to this chick and then i went and saw her in kansas and had an amazing weekend. Been talking and then last week had this thing where i thought she was giving up which she kind of was and i just sent her a message basically saying hey i know how it is, if you dont think you can do it just let me know and we can just stop now. She thought i was trying to rush her into an LDR and lately it just has felt differently and i finally brought it up and she said we will talk later cause she was hanging out with a friend. But its about midnight her time so i think she isnt calling. I think its pretty much over but i want to try and set it up to try again in the future. i was thinking of just not talking to her and dropping contact so its like i dropped her cause i felt it wouldnt work and then it makes her think about me and wants me again. i had planned on seeing her next weekend but i think im going to change that and cancel the time i was going to take off. ill admit i was a complete afc sometimes and fucked up. But does that sound like a pretty good idea?