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    Default Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    Hey Guys,

    Maximus here again with a field report, this time unfortunately dismal.

    So about 4 months ago i met this girl online (POF) but we never really got to meeting. I gamed her a bit over the net and she gain interest. We talked on the phone a few times, but i figured it wasn't going anywhere since she couldn't meet me (no car). A few days ago i get the usual "what you doing tonight?" txt. Long story short, we meet up and i bring her and her friend out to meet a bunch of my friends for bowling and the pub afterward. Her and her friend have a good time, i take them home and we kiss as the night ends. On to the next day. I meet up with her and grab booze for beer pong. Meet up with a few of her friends today. All goes well. I head to work and she comes in with them to visit. After i get off work we meet up again (she's kinda drunk aswell as her friends). We play a bit more pong and then go to leave. I drive her, her friend, and this guy back to his place to drop the dude off then take the girls back home to her house. What does she do, she gets out and leaves with the guy right infront of me and her friend... Leaving me to drive her friend who i don't know back home.

    I'm not really sure what's a good approach at this point and time. As a learning PUA i understand that alcohol can get you laid but it's also taking advantage of which i'm not down unless she knows what's going to happen before we drink. My question is whether i should pursue this girl anymore. I do kinda like her, but after that i have little respect...

    M.

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    Default Re: Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    She went home with some other dude, right in front of you ?!?!?

    Seeing or talking to her again is NOT an option unless you have zero self respect.

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    Default Re: Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    yeah that girl is a hoe. if you tried gaming her again you have no respect for yourself. this girl has been cut. fuck it her loss obviously! bad luck bro
    I live in my reality and you’re a guest

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    Default Re: Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    Agreed, bad luck indeed. Update. She called this morning not to apologize, but to see if i wanted to hang out again today. When i called her out on it she blamed drinking and the fact they were "old friends from high school". I told her that I WAS into her and to put yourself in my shoes, how can i let that go. She then turned into the "I'm sorry" girl. Whether she is or not, whether she is going to "make it up to me" as she says. I'm done. Going back with her is, like bill said, NOT and option. Self respect is why we're PUA's to lose that is to lose yourself.

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    Default Re: Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    One thing that will empower you is that people will begin to treat you with respect and dignity if you require them to. She didn't treat you with either and she is gone. Now that you have (and will continue to) demonstrate that, people will value you more.

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    Default Re: Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    Thanks for this thread man, I've been having some trouble with a girl who did a very similar thing and I didn't realize what I was doing (to myself) by thinking it was okay in any way, just told her to get the fuck out of my life because I can do better then her.

    Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    Damn that blows, just remember that karma is a biatch!

    Really listen to what Bill had to say there about the respect and dignity. Thats a permission factor alot of guys fight with.

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    Default Re: Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    Thanks again guys. It's so true about respect. Demanding to be treated with respect will get rid of people who don't respect you and gain others who will respect you. On i side note i sarge the sh1t outta my local country bar tonight. SO MANY GIRLS i got 8 numbers, no kiss close tho. And i have a new girl i'm already gaming instead of the girl from last night.

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    Default Re: Just keep bangin my head against a wall

    Quote Originally Posted by Mwood245 View Post
    Agreed, bad luck indeed. Update. She called this morning not to apologize, but to see if i wanted to hang out again today. When i called her out on it she blamed drinking and the fact they were "old friends from high school". I told her that I WAS into her and to put yourself in my shoes, how can i let that go. She then turned into the "I'm sorry" girl. Whether she is or not, whether she is going to "make it up to me" as she says. I'm done. Going back with her is, like bill said, NOT and option. Self respect is why we're PUA's to lose that is to lose yourself.

    M
    You are telling a girl that dumped you, that you are into her, making her the prize. You even made it worse by stringing along with her excuses and asking her to put herself in your shoes. It is needy and gives her more reasons to destroy your frame.

    What I would do is, cut all contact, act cold like I don't give a damn and let her come to me. If she asked why I acted like that, I would seriously explain that what she did last night was disrespectful. If she apologized, I would say "Hey, it's ok. I will give you one more chance to see that you have more than that." or smt. like that. If she can't take it, I would move on with many other options out there instead of spending my time with this misbehaving girl. That's my opinion on this.
    Last edited by everybodydancenow; 08-12-2010 at 08:13 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by everybodydancenow View Post
    You are telling a girl that dumped you, that you are into her, making her the prize. You even made it worse by stringing along with her excuses and asking her to put herself in your shoes. It is needy and gives her more reasons to destroy your frame.

    What I would do is, cut all contact, act cold like I don't give a damn and let her come to me. If she asked why I acted like that, I would seriously explain that what she did last night was disrespectful. If she apologized, I would say "Hey, it's ok. I will give you one more chance to see that you have more than that." or smt. like that. If she can't take it, I would move on with many other options out there instead of spending my time with this misbehaving girl. That's my opinion on this.
    so much more pussy out there. careful of taking a little bait toward one-itus, a disease that can start off with so innocuosly and before you know it you have beaten off scores of other new babes who wanted a taste, but one repeat offender has gotten another go and lowered your value.

    you guys recruit aussie punters in your football so let me boot this bitch outa the ballpark for ya mate....


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