Re: I need help BAD!
ok wow. well i could point out plenty of stuff wrong. first off you didnt mention any keno, no sexual escaltion, when the conversation died you did not try to multi thread or even use some of our games to make her laugh. then when going to a bar and having her say no and choose a place. why let her lead the interaction. choose another place you like. then you didnt seem alpha at all. why not try some social proof. if your going to a bar, get some friends out with you who can help bring you out of your shell so ur not introverted and you seem to be the life of the party. so obviously you were boring enough that when you tried to switch venues that she didnt even want to come along, she wanted to go somewhere else.
i have sometimes made an excuse of going to a house party/ other bar where i have some friends and i know the bartenders. that allows you to have fun, work game and ultimately help out your game cause she is relying on just you to lead the interaction
so some things you need to work on first is conversation flow and how to come back from a dead conversation. maybe even playing some games to get her talking, or to neg her, or to disqualify her. i mean play something silly like marry, fark, kill. that game is always fun especially with alcohol involved. then that could lead to her talking about her type, getting to know her, building some rapport and comfort. it allows you to use some keno and then even setup for sexual escalation. when she is talking about marriage and farking, that allows you to openly sexually escalate. so go for it. but maybe you can come back from it.
DO NOT!!! send that beta message. that shows you are not confident, that the interaction was horrible and puts her on the spot to dawg on you. send something more alpha even something that could neg. and something where she has to make it up to you.
"Hola there feisty pants?!? Ok well since im flying out soon i was considering inviting you out to...." this says nothing about the horrible date, it holds a strong frame while showing a non pushy time line that she needs to see you soon.
or you can do it where you guys have a movie thing, which allows you to escalalte while also calling her out.
"Ok liar Mcliarsen. After that we need to have a better night. I have some amazing wine and a bunch of movies? Would you like to watch movies with me tonight? check yes or yes ! pajamas are required"
ok so the next exampled caller her out about lying but was not very direct at all and kept a very playful tone like its no big deal. then it showed you guys will be just drinking and chilling which sets it up for a good night. you use a funny technique of check yes or yes from race de priests text game and then you put a requirement for her to wear pajamas. overall both these messages are very both alpha and could get you another meet up. if you mess up again its probably done
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