I was at a starbucks with my one of my close friends and two blonde 8s walk in. Beautiful girls. I notice them and I thought "I can go talk to them... but I wont". So my friend leaves at around 11:30 and I go back inside to pee. I come outside and light up a smoke before I was gonna get in my car, just enjoying the night. The two girls walk outside go to their car, directly in front of me, pull out their own smokes and sit on the curb right near me. I overheard them talking about guys and how much they suck and whatever. It would have been so easy to jump into that conversation and meet these two but instead I lean against the wall and my mind says "Look they're talking about guys, they dont want to deal with another." "Why would they go for you?" "They look too busy in their own conversation". The thing was my body wanted to go talk to them! As soon as they sat down in front of me my heart started racing with Approach Anxiety. As soon as I got in my car to leave, they did too. It's like they WANTED me to talk to them.
I need Inner game help ASAP. What do you people say to yourselves in these situations?
I've been out of the game for about 2 years now and I want to get back in but It's hard because I lack the confidence I once had.