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    Default Totally Blew It!!! HELP!

    So this girl from las vegas is staying at my house and i couldnt go to a party so i said to myself if i dont go to this party ill stay home and game this chick. Well right about when she was going to go sleep i catch her

    and tell her to lets go see a movie in the hallway, she agrees. So im in the hallway looking for a movie and meanwhile we're talking (we were talking but all my thought were on making out with her.) so finnaly i found

    a movie (i was trying to look for a movie that had some soft porn in it but couldnt find one so i went with rush hour two) well the dvd was loading and I told her that when i was in mexico i had used this cold reading

    technique i had learned on this one girl that liked me(showed preselection) and i did the cube on her. Later my dad walks in and leaves the door open she quickly gets up and closes it. Well the dvd wasnt

    working so i offered to go to my room i said i had a huge screen in there and we went to my room and she lays down in my spot and I made her move then we sort of had a pillow fight cus she was pissed that i had

    made her move. later on during the movie I asked her " Are you a good kisser" then there was like a 2 second pause and she asks "why?" i wasnt expecting that so i say " o because during mexico i would ask girls that

    and they would always get freaked out" then she laughed and after that we just kept talking. she kept asking me about how many girlfriends i had had and sending me iois. she later fell asleep in my bed when i figured

    out she was asleep I nodged her head and she woke up then i offered to take the mattress out from under my bed but she said she would go sleep in my sisters room. Well I thought about why I didnt kiss close her and

    then i realised She was incredibly turned on just by being around me when we first got to the hallway she even told me how more fun i was

    now and that i had changed, when she closed that door right away it was because she wanted something to happen. FUCK! I had her already and I

    decided to start from the bottom by negging, dhv, ect... the thing is I didnt just want so say "will you kiss me" cus i feared that she would get turned off or something,

    So my question is when a women gets turned on just like that without you even gaming her whats the proper way to kiss close her without turning her off? and if i made mistakes can you please tell me what i did wrong?

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    Well bro I think that you did just fine when it came down to the stacking part...you transitioned from technique to technique with out getting any neg feedback. From word go she seems to be digging you and thats deff wats up however, I think you were focused so much on making out/laying with this chick that you psyched yourself out. Then when your moment did arrise you missed it caused you were focusing on what should happen next in your routine

    What I can give you far as advice is this (take it or leave it your choice) stay relaxed dont worry so much on what routine should be used next just let nature take its course. Once you see that she's into you relax even more and tease her by adding Kino into the mix this will deff warm things up red hot...remember chicks are like a decent running engine you have to warm em up decently in order to get em going.

    Other than that bro i think you did well hopefully if she's still around you could take it to the next step.

    -Until next time

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    I agree - anxiety is super noticeable and girls pick up on it and it freaks them out (they don't even know why). Dahn is right, the more interested a girl becomes in you, the more you can and should relax. That will intensify their attraction.

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    This one is interesting. Ya goofed it up by overthinking it, and by not acting on the opportunity presented to you.

    She goes along with EVERYTHING you suggest, and when that happens I recommend what the other guys say: relax. Pull her closer, push her away, pull her closer... Also, what most likely happens in this kind of situation is that she will expect you to lead her by escalating. If you do not lead, it will not happen.

    The defining moment of the story is when you ask her "Are you a good kisser?" and she asks "Why?" - By backing down and switching into comfort mode you convey sexual insecurity, effectively blowing yourself out of the water. Instead you should have gone for it; "try closing your eyes.." (if you need a bridge) and then kiss her.

    Sometimes your brain is the biggest enemy of your penis. :-)
    Last edited by Dreamz; 06-12-2009 at 01:56 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamz View Post
    The defining moment of the story is when you ask her "Are you a good kisser?" and she asks "Why?" - By backing down and switching into comfort mode you convey sexual insecurity, effectively blowing yourself out of the water.
    I am definitely going to try this one next time I get a girl isolated and comfortable with me.

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    This is what happens after already having sex with a chick,
    1. one of them did ask how many girlfriends I had...always make yourself the prize, not her...even if you have had none, raise that number by a couple...after doing them, and talking to them a couple of days later, I would ask them why they asked particular questions, I know why (they wanted me of course hehe)...but they would reply with, "I could only imagine how good you could have been to them compared to me"..this shows the chick herself thought she was not good enough for me...(that's a GREAT THING right there)...
    2. If a girl asks a question, and you don't quite know the answer, you should have 1 thing to reply with, in GENERAL, NO MATTER what question they ask...I would have said, well how many girlfriends do you think I have had....ask the question back to them with a..what do you think part...to make them think of your answer.

    3. She fell asleep on your bed...and you did nothing! Let me say this a girl will not be sleeping on your bed unless she was comfortable with you. Did you understand that? They will not lay down on YOUR bed unless they were comfortable with you...the second part is, she actually fell asleep...merely laying there, you should have made some type of move onto her, but when she went asleep you should have made an EVEN GREATER move on her...

    If she was in the covers...and was sleeping...you should have went to sleep also hehe...the same bed buddy... if she was on top of the covers...lay right next to her, while going to lay down she would have definitely looked up or been woken up...your eyes would gaze at each other and you would have had her right there and then...

    4. When she asks how many girlfriends you had....it shows she wanted/had interest in you...
    5. When they lay down on a bed/ACTUALLY falling asleep on your bed...she would have done it with you on the spot.

    "then i offered to take the mattress out from under my bed" ...you don't offer to give a girl another bed...you offer to give a girl the bed you would be sleeping in...

    "she said she would go sleep in my sisters room" ...if your sister was not there in the house you should have said something loud enough for her to hear, but soft enough and blunt enough for it to stick with her for a couple of minutes (I'll be right up in a minute)....she goes to your sisters room...you follow, you shut off the lights...find her in the bed and get right in...

    Finito...I think I read a, "your father was in the house" type of thing...okay forget having sex, just make out??

    That's how I would have done it...but that is just me...


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