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    Question Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    Hey guys,

    This is my first post here - just wanted to get your opinions on a situation I have.

    Basically I met a chinese malaysian girl in the supermarket last Friday (let's call her Su). She was clearly quite conservative so I was pretty happy to get a Number Close and a date for the next day (speaking some malay and chinese always helps here

    We met at the beach and as I was a bit late (oops, 15 minutes) so she was pretty shirty at me to begin with. I just played a lot of keno, banter and qualification and we actually ended up having heaps of fun. I picked her up, smacked her on the arse etc etc and because she had never been treated like that I think it really got her hormones running or something.

    When we parted I got some really good hugs and even a brief doggy dinner-bowl look. It was a good date - she definitely wanted to kiss me. I didn't book a second date because she seemed so interested it would hardly be necessary. I also did not follow up the next day because I actually had better things to do. And I never expected her to text me or anything - because she is the conservative asian type.

    So... the thing is, she's smart. She knew I was gaming her and she doesn't trust me. We didn't build enough rapport on the date. I sent a benign text to her on Tuesday ("Hey smarty-pants, how is your day going?") just to get the communication going again, but got no reply. Do you think I should text her again? I thought something to lower my value a bit since she may have low trust in me. Something like ("Hey Su, when are you free next? This is really embarrassing, but I'm starting to miss you"). I don't think she will interpret it as needy given that I number-closed her in the supermarket...

    What do you think? I will probably not send the message but am interested to know if you guys think it is a good move.

    BTW, she is about a 7. Why do I care about a 7? Because I know that underneath her conservative programming is a horny little devil and I want to know how much of that I can draw out.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    ok well first question. she might be smart but how does she know you were just gaming her. i presume that u just assumed that cause she hasnt text back. i am worried that ur in ur own head on this one and no. *slap* i should slap the hell out of you thinking that because you closed her in the supermarket that sending that text wouldnt lower your value. it makes u seem like a needy little bitch. sometimes u need tough love.

    but ok well since she hasnt contacted you but you said it seemed like she was into you, i would try texting her some fun engaging things to try and get a response and get a convo going. if not then i would go to Freezing Her Out for a little bit and then coming back more alpha and having a greater frame. if anything maybe you just made her uncomfortable but never resort to those crappy little texts. as pjarv said the other day. " i want to slap you like a deprived pimp slaps a lazy bitch" never ever send something so low value cause you just seem like a complete chump there.

    just stay alpha go game some other chicks and try to come back to it another day
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    Default Re: Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    she might be smart but how does she know you were just gaming her
    she kind of called me out a few times when I was getting so much Kino in

    *slap* i should slap the hell out of you thinking that because you closed her in the supermarket that sending that text wouldnt lower your value. it makes u seem like a needy little bitch.
    THANK-YOU for the slap. I have to get out of that habit... too worried about over-gaming chicks

    just stay alpha go game some other chicks and try to come back to it another day
    lol. that was totally my plan

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    Default Re: Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by kefu26 View Post
    she kind of called me out a few times when I was getting so much Kino in
    Ive gotten that before and the best thing I have found to get through it is to just keep running game. I was about to k close a chick on night when she threw at me the you must be a player line cause you are going so fast… I responded in a kind of cocky way, maybe so but you don’t really care and then kissed her. Its just a frame grab, stay alpha and don’t let it throw you off your game.

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    Default Re: Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    yeah i like that one. the "yeah maybe a lot but you dont care!" or the cocky funny one like "hey male giggalos is the correct terminology. thank you". yeah best way when she is testing you is just keep going thru it and running your game and u will be fine!
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    Default Re: Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    I'm going to give her the breakup text in a few days. see if it works

    "I can't believe you didn't reply to my sms. We're so broken up. I want my cds back."

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    Default Re: Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    haha that was is kind of funny. yeah try that. or you can do a text marriage divorce. i personally like that one
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    Too late for kefu but...

    "We're so broken up. I want my cds back."
    ...is a great text.

    The "I can't believe you didn't reply to my sms." is lame.

    Leave it out.

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    Default Re: Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    I don't bother with conservative girls anymore. Their guard's too up. I tried a few times and it was was a waste.

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    Default Re: Building Rapport With a Conservative Girl?

    I don't think there's anything wrong with re-texting her. I would just wait a good amount of time (say 5 days?) You should send only one line texts and just be done with it. If no response, repeat 5 days later. There are ways to be persistent without appearing needy.

    If you're just trying to F close or practice I don't think it matters who you go after. It's all in good education to yourself to pursue different types of girls. I wouldn't just eliminate a group of girls from your choice just because she is conservative. Use her to practice your skills. Yes I said 'use' lol. You may find you really like her anyways.

    One last note to texting I have found is great: If she takes 15 minutes to respond I will wait 60 minutes to respond. If she responds quickly to my 60m text then I will text my response in 30m. I want my bag of girls to know I don't give a sh1t even if I'm pacing in my house dying to text her back (because she's hot or whatever). I find that this subtly punishes her for not giving me attention when I would like it. And guys don't be shot gunning questions to her....she is a girl and she will become skiddish if you're putting too much pressure on her. Send one question at a time and go take a sh1t with your phone on your bed. I use this method a lot and it drives them crazy. They will always tell me later.....You take so long to retext, what were you doing hanging with your girl friend?!, etc etc I just smile and make a comment about how cute they look.
    manana ,

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