This is my first post here - just wanted to get your opinions on a situation I have.
Basically I met a chinese malaysian girl in the supermarket last Friday (let's call her Su). She was clearly quite conservative so I was pretty happy to get a Number Close and a date for the next day (speaking some malay and chinese always helps here
We met at the beach and as I was a bit late (oops, 15 minutes) so she was pretty shirty at me to begin with. I just played a lot of keno, banter and qualification and we actually ended up having heaps of fun. I picked her up, smacked her on the arse etc etc and because she had never been treated like that I think it really got her hormones running or something.
When we parted I got some really good hugs and even a brief doggy dinner-bowl look. It was a good date - she definitely wanted to kiss me. I didn't book a second date because she seemed so interested it would hardly be necessary. I also did not follow up the next day because I actually had better things to do. And I never expected her to text me or anything - because she is the conservative asian type.
So... the thing is, she's smart. She knew I was gaming her and she doesn't trust me. We didn't build enough rapport on the date. I sent a benign text to her on Tuesday ("Hey smarty-pants, how is your day going?") just to get the communication going again, but got no reply. Do you think I should text her again? I thought something to lower my value a bit since she may have low trust in me. Something like ("Hey Su, when are you free next? This is really embarrassing, but I'm starting to miss you"). I don't think she will interpret it as needy given that I number-closed her in the supermarket...
What do you think? I will probably not send the message but am interested to know if you guys think it is a good move.
BTW, she is about a 7. Why do I care about a 7? Because I know that underneath her conservative programming is a horny little devil and I want to know how much of that I can draw out.