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  1. #1
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    Default Here is my very first field report

    For the first time I have tried my skills out at the bars today. I was pretty shy throughout the night and kept making myself believe in excuses that my brain kept producing on why I shouldn't approach the girls around me. I saw these two really hot girls by the bar right next to me. I was out with my friend/wingman and I noticed that one of them kept glancing at me. First I did not approach her and just went to a different bar.

    Later on I came back and got some more drinks (drinks boosted my confidence a bit), and then I saw her leaving with her friend. Right then I got my buddy to leave the club as well, and while walking in front of the set I heard her saying something about the town that we live in. I turned around and said, "Did you just say that Columbus sucks? I would agree with you 100%, I have been here for over a week and the city is pretty sad." She agreed and asked me where I was from. So I told her, and then asked her about herself. She said that she was originally from germany, but lived here since she was 5. I said, "so you are american!" she said, "I guess I am, how about you?" Me and my friend were about to enter this one bar, but these two girls told us that it sucked there, so we asked them where they were going and we just tagged along with them.

    Anyways, besides this little chit chat, it was raining like crazy, and she was complaining about her hair getting wet, so I gave her my coat to cover her hair. Then I said, "great, not I will have to go do my hair again, cause this rain is f-in it up" she turned around and started laughing... I said, "are you laughing because you think that I'm bold?" in a joking way.. She laughed even more. Throughout this walk she told me that she owns a house and when I asked her what did she do for living, she got all weird and said, "i'm not going to tell you!" That's when I said, "if you are selling drugs on the street, it's cool, because I do that too " she laughed.

    Anyways, we got to the new bar and she gave me my jacket back. After that, I was walking in the front with my buddy and they were behind us. But then all of a sudden, I saw her and her friend turn around and bounce to the other side of the bar away from us... Later on I saw them too sitting by the bar and just drinking their beers, not talking to no guys or anything for the rest of the night...

    Please let me know what I did wrong, or they were just two lesbians...?

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    Default Re: First field report

    OK

    -Did you just say that Columbus sucks? I would agree with you 100%, I have been here for over a week and the city is pretty sad.- that states something more political or cultural than it states interests in a sexual or seducing matter. For instance if you said:
    -"Did you say that Columbus sucks? Have you looked in the mirror last two hours??? Look at your shoes! They are all wet.. OH MY GOD, its so cute!!! And then your shirt. Wow, remember when they were so IN and everybody wore them?? I like the shoes, i like the shirt, look at your friend! She's so: IIIIIIIAA...in fact, I LIKE EVERYTHING in Columbus now!" or you could have said:
    -"Did you say Columbus sucks? Why? It is so cool in here, this old fashion boring stuff, it has some arousing energy. What do you think would make it better then?" or:
    -"Yeah it does, but now that's all history cause i am here to bring massive change to this town! Hi my name is ... Obama and i reprezent the lost youth in saturday night clubs" (or whatever night it may be) Then start asking with your political heavy voice what they would like to see happening here. Blablabla

    NEVER agree that something sucks, in fact, NEVER AGREE with her in anyway unless it is in a spiritual or fashional matter, only when it is on a deeper level. NEVER on the surface. Also never give them your coat because you are gonna get wet yourself and you'll look like a slave and slave look like dogs and no girl wants to fark a dog.

    Dont try to be a nice guy with gentle manners to woman. A gentle man is not what they search for and a gentlemen is something different than being gentle. Gentile is a curse when it comes to meet woman.

    What you did wrong further: If she starts asking questions back it does not mean she is interested in you. On a night out they are mostly interested in purchasing your drinking money and if they like you they will let you know in a different way than 'just smile' and ask where you are from. If she is really interested she can ask something deeper then: Where are you from.

    O and something else, keep your ears open for the word 'So'. If she starts her sentence or question with the word So, that means she is engaged in going out with you, or is interested in being engaged to you. In your part i can find the word So but in her part i cannot.

    Dont just agree as they say your barchoice sucks, show them they still have a chance to be with you and if they walk on they lose that chance.

    YOU ARE THE PRICE: They ARE the DOGS

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    Default Re: First field report

    o yeah and NEVER turn your whole body in their direction. You have to talk to them from the side or over your shoulder. Otherwise you are the one who is seeking for contact and they are not invited for a chase and catch game.

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    Sounds like you didn't separate them. Does anyone know whether that would be helpful in this case?

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    Wink Re: First field report

    Quote Originally Posted by Tom View Post
    Sounds like you didn't separate them. Does anyone know whether that would be helpful in this case?
    I guess thats hard to do when you're walking in the rain... Start your evening next time with a few wingstories to help each other out so your wing can help out the problem of her friend. She's definitly not a lesbian

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    I'm going to toss one more possible error in here ... she mentioned she owned a house which you followed with a question about her job. While I'm still learning as a PUA, I've never had trouble picking up successful women. Most of them later admitted to having the same type of gold-digger filter I do (always think it's funny that loser guys seem to light up over their jobs/incomes, when truthfully courting a successful woman is much more expensive then courting a broke one just by being in their world). Most women don't like to be defined by what they do (unlike a lot of guys), and following up the home ownership question with "what do you do" is a definite dlv, as it shows you are impressed with the relatively menial achievement of buying a home. Even if they're glowing with pride about it, not paying attention to the statement shows that you see it as no big accomplishment - after all it would be far later in the "relationship" that she would know whether you had ever owned a home or not.

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    Default Re: First field report

    Snake a few things:
    First it is ok to agree with a woman if you honestly agree. Its when guys agree just for the sake of it to build comfort that it doesn’t work. If you honestly hold a certain belief and she has the same, its ok. Nothing wrong with it at all.
    Second the over the shoulder thing is ok when you open but you do eventually have to mirror their body language and turn towards them. If you don’t then they will take it as a sign of rejection and move on. But open yourself only after she opens to you. Im sure you know this but just wanted to make sure it was posted so some of the newer guys wouldn’t get confused.

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    Default Re: First field report

    ??? wtf lol

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    Snakes, thanks for pointing out all of the things, now I can see how I blew it. Your advice is greatly appreciated and I will def use it in the future.


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