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  1. #11
    Junglee Guest

    Default Re: Indian thinking of going abroad to get laid on Xmas/Newyear's eve

    If I went to India, I know I could clear up with you Mr OldAsAFossil. With the greatest of respect your lines were wrong...Hows it going guys? Do you come here often? Neve used them ever. You need to be blowing them away not sound lie an AFC! If your not happy with your hair then change it. Im a british indian and when I visit India, I clear up and I promise you its without flashing the cash.

    Dont be paranoid about the closes of others, you need to tailor the game of others so it fits India!

    Tell a girl you thought she was a Bollywood movie actress or ask her if she is related to one! So many options. But whatever you say make sure its believe. After the openers dont compliment for at least 7 minutes. Talk about anything for a while...the 2 girls fighting outside...the shit tunes the DJ is playing.

    Good luck man, I have faith. Keep your chin up everyone goes through bad patches.

    PS 8.30 is far too early to hit a club!! Be the last one in and first one out.

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    Default Re: Indian thinking of going abroad to get laid on Xmas/Newyear's eve

    Thanks for your reply in my thread. Just to open up my mind to the kinds of possibilities that exist here in India itself, can you give me 1 or 2 of your success stores here?

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    Default Re: Indian thinking of going abroad to get laid on Xmas/Newyear's eve

    My insecurity about my bald head is back with full swing since the last couple of weeks.
    Here are the pictures of my bald head, I find that it crippling my confidence levels, and I find it difficult to imagine any girl will find it attractive.


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    Default Re: Indian thinking of going abroad to get laid on Xmas/Newyear's eve

    Quote Originally Posted by old_as_a_fossil View Post
    I'm quite frustated with my lack of success with chicks here, and my eyes go wide when I see guys in other countries with so many lays under their belt. For example I'm just returning from a nightclub empty handed. I went there quite early, around 8.30 pm. Music at that time was low enough and people were slowly starting , tricking in. My specific agenda was to make some efforts and post here to see if things are different in USA/UK etc. The cover charge was extremely high at Rs.1000, and drinks were very expensive.
    Here are my wasted approaches.
    1. While I was ordering a drink at the bar bench, 2 girls came over for ordering. I opened "Hey guys, how is it going?" and they mumbled "good" with a slight smile and turned their faces to act as if they are busy. I asked "Just 2 two guys?" and they said no and pointed to a guy and a girl sitting at the sofa. I said "Come here often?", she said "No", I said "Me too, just come here first time", and she showed no interest to continue conversation. As I had ordered a white coloured drink called cocunut Icelander and one of the girls was curiously looking at it, I said "YOu are thinking it is looking weird. It is, isn't it!". And she was like "whatever". Then the other two members of their group - a guy and a girl joined them at the bench. I made a small talk with the guy and learned that he is the brother of the 2 girls I talked to, and that the other girl with him is the one he is banging. When they went back to the sofa I acted friendly with the guy and sit by his side and introduced myself and shook hands with his gf. Right after he took her away leaving his sisters alone. I again talked to the sisters saying "Why don't you guys bring your parents along, more than half your family is here." They said "Yeah, next time" and immediately acted too busy talking among themselves, ignoring my manly presence. I felt insulted and moved away to near the swimming pool.

    2. I see a set of 3 girls, one of them piping hot. I casually said "Hey guys, how is it going?". They acted like statues, and not a word. I said "Your defences already up, huh?". Again no response. I moved away.

    3. Now there were 2 girls - a white western and an Indian. They were playing among themselves by writing crap with a sketch pen upon on the backside of each other's shirts. I asked the western chick what she just wrote on her friend's shirt, and she pointed out to a big butterfly wings, and was pulled into some chit chat with her friends (they were part of a bigger group). I waited nearby for an opportunity again. They were too busy playing among themselves, guys and girls, with sketch pens, writing on their chests, shirts etc. Then the Indian girl wrote on the western girls' backside - "Take me to your hotel room tonight". I remarked, "What a wicked comment you have written!", the western girl asked me what is that she wrote, and I said it, then said to the Indian girl "Why are you writing your own wishes on someone else's back?" and she said "Because she is my best friend" . I was like "Oh." and they both ran away somewhere like they can't live without their friends. Instead of saying "Oh" I should have said "So you admit that is your wish!" , but I doubt even that would have prevented them from moving away.

    4. By now the music has become extremely loud, and people are all dancing. I go into the dance floor, just shaking my head in rythm. Everyone was strictly dancing within their own group. No eye contacts with strangers. Absolutely none. Every girl was pretending like her friend group is her world. I spotted a western girl with blonde hair and starred deep into her eyes a few times, and finally got a little eye contact from her. I was going to talk something to her but the music was blazing, I knew she would hear nothing I speak, so I waited for an opportunity for when it subsides a bit. But it never happened. Meanwhile the western girl's hands were taken by some guy in her group and I eject.

    There were many hot girls' groups, but like I said they were not even making eye contacts, and the music being so lould, no approaches on the dance floor.

    5. It was nearly closing time (10.45 pm) and I walk again by the swimming pool. I see 2 girls sitting at a table. I walked to them, and asked "Hey guys, how is it going?" The music was flowing even to this distance, and I had to repeat myself again, and they were like "Good". One of them was unresponsive and was playing with her cellphone. I sat at a chair, wondered a second what to talk, and then asked "Can I ask you a female opinion on something". Again I had to repeat myself because of the music pouring in, and also my voice was weak from the cold air by the pool side. I had to lean forward like a wuss boy to let them hear me clearly. Then I asked "This is a very important question.. If you are dating a guy for a only a short time, like 3-4 months, and he proposes, would you consider him clingy or possessive.?" I further explained myself saying "My sister has been dating a guy for only 2 months and he's proposed to her, so I needed to ask." Usually the guy has to move away from the opener, but she did that job for me by just asking "You came alone here?" . I said "Yes", she asks, "Why, no friends?", I say "I could make some friends here , ha ha" and she says "ha ha". Then I point to the unresponsive girl and say "This is your friend?", she says "No, she is my sister". I ask "Just the 2 of you?", and she says "No, my bf is here" , I ask "Where is he?", she says "He is waiting in the lounge, we came here so that I can smoke." I say "So are you guys from North East India?", judging by the colour of their skin. She says, "No, we are from Thai", I expressed my surprise how much they resemble people form North East India, and she was like "No man." Then I said my name and asked their names. Then suddenly they got up to leave saying "It was nice meeting you." I quickly blurted out, "Why don't we talk again later" they were like nodding , but did not stop from walking away (probably did not know I meant to grab their number), so I could not ask their phone number.

    I was frustated and left the bar and came back to my empty apartment.
    If it helps the analysis, I'm extremely bald, with a very prominent horse-shoe shaped baldness. I reckon it could be a turn off for women as I'm the only bald guy in the whole bar.

    Anyway, do you think I should try going to some other country for getting laid on Newyear's eve?



    Hey- I agree with what most others on here are saying, especially Raven. Work on yourself and study Mystery Method. If you do you'll find quite a few things you can do differently to better change your outcomes. For example, using the opener "Hey guys, how's it going?' is generally awful because it puts the conversational burden on the girls. You're leaving it up to them to find something interesting to say instead of you. LEAD the interaction. This isn't a suggestion, it's a general rule of thumb to follow. Women will be bored to tears by what you're saying if you don't come up with something interesting to say and then they will blame you for that boredom. If you buy a plane ticket to another country and you DON'T get laid you will be that much more dissapointed about the situation. Learn the material first and then decide where you want to go- once you do learn and master it, you'll have much greater success with women anywhere.

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    Default Re: Indian thinking of going abroad to get laid on Xmas/Newyear's eve

    Just noticed the picture posted- either do something about the baldness (Rogaine, hair replacement surgery etc) or just shave your head. In the case of shaving it and being completely bald, the point is not to get women physically attracted to you because you are bald, the point is to convey that you are a strong, smart, leader-type individual who DOES something about the fact that you're losing hair and is unaffected by it. SHOW that you are who you are, and losing hair does not change that. Grooming yourself by shaving it or getting your hair back conveys that you have embraced the idea of being your best self. Doing so will make you more attractive to women.

  6. #16
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    Default Re: Indian thinking of going abroad to get laid on Xmas/Newyear's eve

    Get a good quality wig if you dont fancy going bald. I have friends in dehli that I went to university with. Most girls there were upper class rich kids but they were still fascinated bya UK indian. So basically I had a good selection to pick from. Cant remember the name of the hotel where we went to a basement party but that place was kicking! My friend was well off also so his chauffeur d#ove us there.

    I tried to make the most of my novelty UK factor so I aimed to spe3k to all of the hot girls. So they heard my accent. A line I remember is asking the girls if they were from England. They loved that one as it insinuated that they were better dressed and 'more western' than other girls there. They were loving that one. Try it! Ask girls if they are on vacation....notice an item of clothing or jewellery that you could mention to back up your case. I mentioned that I was in India on business for a week, this enabled me to sense which girls wanted to take advantage of me and which girls wanted me to have a sight seeing/touristy kind of holiday. I mentioned that I have seen all the sights. Its worked well as we managed to take 2 sets back to my friends house to carry on the party. I will try and find out the location of this hotel for you Fossy.

    But I think it might be a good idea to take a break from sarging until you sort your head out (and hair too if you feel that will help). Your wasting your time if your approaching with this negative attitude.

  7. #17
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    Default Re: Indian thinking of going abroad to get laid on Xmas/Newyear's eve

    Buy a cool hat! You sound like a trilby man.


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