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  1. #1
    Martano Guest

    Default Social Butterfly

    Basically this is a brief account of my most recent sarging episode.The Social Butterfly perfectly describes this girls personality if you are familiar with what it means.

    So, I opened a 5 set of girls with a HB9 being my target. I knew one member of the set so that was fine and after some calculated body rocking negging the target etc. I managed to isolate her from her friends and continue gaming.

    I think my initial game was really good as quite quickly I was recieving IOI's such as when she was talking to me, keeping in mind there was really loud music, she really pushed her chest up against me, like more than was neccessary. Other IOI's like finger holding, and fiddling with my pockets. I even managed to AMOG around 3 orbiters. I mean these guys kept coming up one guy came up and said something really cheesy (can't remember exactly what) so I turned to him and said really enthusiastically 'Oh I bet you say that to all the girls you player you!!' then winked at the target. Then he, desperately trying to cling onto the two set we had became tried to initiate conversation with me. I think he was actually trying to disable me like I had another guy earlier (Cheeky b4stard!!) So I quickly said 'WHOA! Sorry mate. I've nothing against gays, but I don't swing that way!!' My target found this really funny and to be honest so did I! Haha! Anyways After another 5 minutes of conversation I managed to get her to bounce outside with me 'as it was too crowded in here'

    However things didn't go bad, but they didn't progress as I'd have hoped. Whilst I did get her to qualify herself and she still seemed interested I just couldn't successfully escalate. I'd freeze her when she was giving resistance which actually worked but unfortunately time ran out and her friends dragged her off to a party. So as she was quite literally being dragged away she said 'Facebook me!!' so I said with a big smile 'Probably not!' Haha!

    I went to a lock in at my friends bar after that and was pretty smashed. Now when I wasn't too drunk and on my game I genuinely believe that with this girl, as I didn't have her number, that not facebook messaging her would be by far the best move to make. (I already have her on facebook, but literally have barely spoken a word to her) However, I did drunkenly when I got home. (Free drinks for 3 hours is a bad but also good idea! Also drinking beer straight from the tap is an experience that can make one.... do interesting things!) The message wasn't terrible but it's not what I would have wrote if I was thinking clearly. To be honest It's a tad AFC im afraid. I'll post it below.

    Now I knew fine well she wouldn't message me back when I was sober as she loves a guy who makes her chase.Also, I don't think I had built quite enough attraction, if I had more time I would probably have K-Closed then I would have got a response. She said it herself to which I replied, aww your cute, too bad you're not my type!' (she said she likes a guy who makes her chase. Not I'll reply if you kiss me....LOL!!!)

    So basically have a read at the message and know that I have no intention of pursuing her on facebook. I'm confident next time I see her I could make some good progress as I'm much better in person than online. Plus she's not really on facebook chat or that. She just does the equivalent of tweeting on her mobile.

    MESSAGE

    Jenna, I was just thinking. When you said facebook me earlier and I said probably not. That was kinda harsh! Haha! You're actually alot cooler than I gave you credit for! :P I'm just back from a lock in at Maisies... Good times! Oh yeah... I hope that interview goes well for you

    I really wish I hadn't sent this. I think I've shot myself in the foot. I'd love to fark this girl!! haha!
    Last edited by Martano; 01-18-2011 at 05:47 PM.

  2. #2
    Martano Guest

    Default Re: Social Butterfly

    P.S. I'm open to some constructive feedback. You can be as brutal as you like. Trust me, I can take it! ha!

  3. #3
    Martano Guest

    Default Re: Social Butterfly

    Oh yeah, does anyone have any good ways of dealing with ex-boyfriend conversation threads?

    I basically told her that her ex sounded really needy and creepy and that she needed an equal (Hint. Hint. ME!!). Someone who she won't use as an ATM as real men don't take that crap. haha!

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    Default Re: Social Butterfly

    with exs boyfriends or boyfriends in general, you either wanna avoid the convo. if she brings it up quickly dismiss it. like yea my ex really liked this! oh, well i have a goldfish lmao.

    the other way of going about this is to make her see how lame he was/is. you do this by pretty much being like well if i was your boyfriend i would. make sure you do this with a cocky funny attitude tho...call you every 5 minutes. check up on you when your out with your friends. say i love you 64 times a day. apparently when you say that your pointing out problems she already has with her bf. shes gonna sit there and think about what your saying and be like wow, he really does that.

    one thing you dont wanna do is talk him down! when you start talking sh1t about the bf or ex it can cause her to think of you as a lower person. especiallly with ex's cuz they could still be friends or what ever. what you wanna do is show that your alpha and hes beta and shes better off with you

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    Default Re: Social Butterfly

    Thanks man. I really appreciate. It's an aspect of conversation I haven't had to deal with since I started studying game and it really stumped me to be honest!

    I shall definitely keep this in mind for the future.

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    Default Re: Social Butterfly

    I know exactly how you feel here. I'm becoming good with women faster than I ever expected to, and when you get ioi's from those really farking cool HB9's you just met and really nail it with her, sometimes it's hard to not melt and act too quickly when it comes to following up.

    I found, the key is to slow down, be patient, and think before sending when it comes to messaging them later.

    Do not forget that you want HER to invest. At that point you had her emotions going perfectly, and you could have probably gotten away with a plethora of bullsh*t to get her to invest. For example, you could've said something along the lines of "Idk, I don't always message girls first." etc.


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