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    PAPAWOLF1 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Embarrassed during sex- 30 days of No Porn

    So this has happened to me before and I found the cure.

    I pulled the other night, I have an "I Owe You Money If I Don't Pull" series on a meetup.com group for long island. Basically I have to pull every night I go out or I have to give $5 per member who asks.

    Back to it, I pulled last Sunday back to her place. A half-hour from where I live. Short Blonde, 5'1/5'2. Rectangular glasses (i like that), small waist and big tits. She must have been fat and lost weight or something. Pick Up seemed seamless. About 2 hours into it we get back to her place. It was a small little 2 bedroom house with 3 small dogs. On the coach watching a movie, of course the perfect excuse to fuck, right? Yes, yes it is. So I start at. First with the hand on the belly, the other around the waist, nudging my nose to hers. Eventually sliding one hand down her pants and the other up her shirt.

    She starts to moan and that's like a super signal to reach into my pants pocket, open my wallet, grab the condom and undo the wrapper. I actually did all of that without looking, after my pants were balled up over one of her dogs.

    Yeah I got some token resistance like, "I'm not sure if I'm ready for my pants to come off" That took about 1 minute to forget about. But when she said, "do you have protection" as I'm actually putting it on, I couldn't help but laugh a little, on the inside.

    Now we're good, obviously. She got off twice. So apparently my going for an extended period of time is not the issue. In fact it's the exact opposite. I go too long, can't finish and when the girls trying to finish up, I get things like, "my arm is getting tired", "c'mon", or "uugh, finish already" Yea I'm not kidding. The worse part is they mumble it or say really low key, like there talking to themselves. Fucking frustrating man.

    So this is what I'm going to do.

    30 Days of no porn. I think the years of watching free miscellaneous porn on the internet damaged my brain. Now I'm not a porn addict, I'm not jacking it 3/4/5 times a day. As I've gathered most guys jerk it 1-2 times PER DAY. So I'm half that.

    I've actually done this before, and I was cured for about 6 months. So I think it's time I do it again. 30 Days...

    Just as a sidenote, does anyone know any studies done pertaining to this subject.

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    Default Re: Embarrassed during sex- 30 days of No Porn

    I agree with not watching that stuff. Besides, when I am really in the 'swing' of things, I have no desire to watching as I am pretty satisfied in 'doing'.

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    Default Re: Embarrassed during sex- 30 days of No Porn

    The simple answer it can desensitize our brains dopamine (feel good) receptors. Less receptors=less happy=no motivation=no women.

    I'm really trying to get this message out because I don't want all the puas here to be embarrassed by their first experience like I was. I'm now trying to quit and now realizing I'm an addict because this is the hardest thing I've done in my life.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 07-05-2012 at 07:17 AM.

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    Default Re: Embarrassed during sex- 30 days of No Porn

    Is there also a website for the opposite of this problem? Or some kinda fix in general? I have more trouble keeping it down when I'm with a girl who is interested in me. Even with clothes on.

    BTW No thread-hijack intended. Please focus more on Papawolf's question.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 07-05-2012 at 07:17 AM.

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    Default Re: Embarrassed during sex- 30 days of No Porn

    Yes I ran into this site a while back and forgot about it. Very interesting.

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    Default Re: Embarrassed during sex- 30 days of No Porn

    OHHHH!!! Trust me, Porn can absolutely have a negative effect in your sex life, as well as your "male performance"!

    I say this from personal experience.

    It got to the point where I couldn't get even get hard enough to masturbate.... even with porn.
    And the mere anxiety of not being able to perform if I were with a girl, was pretty much "self-sabotage".. because I WASN'T able to, when the time came...

    So I talked with my doctor; And after some blood work, I discovered I have low testosterone. (That was part of the problem)
    The other part was the fact that I desensitized myself to arousal, by watching too much porn.

    It really can have negative effects, and they creep in sooooo slowly.

    Now that I quite watching it, AND am getting testosterone replacement therapy, my life has improved WAAAAY more than I would have imagined. (Not just in the libido department either.)

    My personal advice to anyone, would be: don't get in the habit!!!


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Embarrassed during sex- 30 days of No Porn

    Edited this, posted in wrong forum
    Last edited by Vhailor; 08-15-2012 at 11:15 AM. Reason: wrong forum


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