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    Achilles88 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default first time at the club, and I need help :(

    So I went to a Hollywood club on Friday. I danced with several ladies, but one in specifically stood out.


    I was dancing and was able to attract a good looking lady who decided she wanted to dance with me.


    Kino wasn't too hard to accomplish as we where dancing and contact was already very physical. I believe I received 3 ioi's, but I feel like I froze up once I received them and she got bored of me.



    1. Asked me my name.
    2. Told me I was cute several times and touched my hair and told me she liked it. I froze up and told her she was cute too and couldnt really think of what to do next.
    3. She bit my ear in a seductive way.



    I really feel like I blew it (even though I had a good time) I probably could have moved on those signals, but was too nervous or scared.


    My questions are, did I read the signals right? And what can I do to help me not freeze up in the moment? What would you have done in my position?


    I replay it in my head and I can visualize what i should have done. Im just another AFC

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    Default Re: first time at the club, and I need help :(

    What would you have done in my position?
    I would have probably taken her to my apartment.

    BP

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    Default Re: first time at the club, and I need help :(

    haha dang it... I knew I messed up haha...

    you have any tips for me on getting over the overwhelming anxienty?


    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Preston View Post
    I would have probably taken her to my apartment.

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    Default Re: first time at the club, and I need help :(

    Sounds like you need to listen to the HOURS of material in The Guru Black Book on how to create sexual Tension and escalate sexually. Here is a link to some examples of how to do it for free:

    => Generating Sexual Tension

    That link has some thorough examples.

    But if it was me, and her buying temperature was already that peaked, I would have just whispered in her ear "Let's get out of here" and taken her by the hand outside and hailed a cab.

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    Default Re: first time at the club, and I need help :(

    Thanks, I'll definitely check that out and report back on how it helped after my next outting!

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    Default Re: first time at the club, and I need help :(

    I would have asked her if she wanted to kiss me after the three IOIs but thats just me. If she says no, she says no and you move on lol

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    Default Re: first time at the club, and I need help :(

    Thanks for your input.

    I dont know why I couldn't do it, I had in my mind what i needed to do, but it was like there was a barrier between my mind and my mouth. X[

    anyone else experience this sort of block?


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