So I met this cute chick at a superbowl party. We didn't talk much since she was with a friend, but she actually went out of her way to find me on facebook and friend request me. A few days later I IMed her. This is what happened:
Note: I'm bold text and she's regular text and a lot of good smiley faces were lost in translation. May they rest in peace.
hey r u going out with *FRIEND*?
Sort of. More like a friends with benefits thing. Why?
Cuz I think your cute but I dont wanna mess it up for my friend
Oh. I see. For the record you're pretty cute too. But i understand. Bye.
If it dont work out hit me up with a hello and a smile
Haha. Sure thing.
(NOTICE THE HUGE TIME GAP HERE)
Actually, for the record, you're VERY cute... Just had to make sure you knew that. Haha. Peace.
hey thats not fair lol
Haha. I'm just stating facts. When I saw you I was like: damn! If *FRIEND* wasn't here right now.... Haha.
ure from *NEARBY CITY* right?
Well I'm from *MY CITY*. But I go to *NEARBY CITY COLLEGE*
did u guys agree ure not exclusive?
hmmm maybe if you buy me a drink I'd think about it
Haha. But I don't drink remember? Besides sex, I'm a good girl.
lol thats the naughtiest thing ive heard all day
Haha. That's the kind of girl I am.
Be my naughty girl and give me ure number
Haha. I'll think about it... What about *FRIEND*? He wouldn't be too happy about this... Not sure if I care though. But I'm just saying.
ure not exclusive remember?
True. Very true. And once again I don't really care either way. But you two are friends. Plus, how do I know this ain't a setup?
A setup of what? Besides ure 2 cute 2 just let u slip away like that
Haha. Ok. Fine. ###-###-####. Text only please. Call and I won't answer. I'm on campus right now where I don't have a signal so if you wann keep talk in I suggest you facebook me til I get home at noon.
actually I need to get ready for work in a minute but ill text u later
AFTERWARDS I bantered with her a bit that night on facebook and the next day over text and a little bit on facebook, and we agree that we would both like to be farkbuddies and that she broke it off with my friend because he hadn't talked to her in 3 days. "I NEED TO FEEL WANTED" she said. Last night I get this:
Hey, I know this is random and out of the blue right now but I don't think I can kick it with you after all. With all that's goin on in my life I realize I can't be nobodies "fark buddy." I need constant support (as in a boyfriend) in my life. So I gotta stop farkin around with random dudes and start lookin for the one. Sorry to have gotten your hopes up. You are really cute though and I would've rocked your world. peace.
How about a date?
Aww... That would be nice... But I didn't think you were looking for that type of relationship...
couldnt hurt to try
7:07pmYou're too sweet. I would love that. You just made me stop crying and actually smile. thanks.
Hehe. You're a cool dude PurpleReign... I might make it out there next weekend. Can we try to go out then?
K. I'm much better now. See you then!
Then this morning I get this message from her:
What you got planned? Me and my mom are headed out to *MY CITY* today. I was thinking maybe a dinner? Movie? Or just kick it at your place with my PS3. Lemme know. I don't know if I have money for dinner but a movie for sure I do. Hopefully we can see each other. Call/text (yes I said call) and lemme know. Kk? Peace.
I called her back and told her the movies was my favored option since I'm not comfortable bringing her home just yet. Its pretty obvious to me she wants to fark, but I have about 3 hours to get ready for her and maybe even switch up the venue.
Do you have any advice that would keep the possibilities of becoming FBs alive? Or just keeping the sexual Tension alive during a movie? What kind of movie should I pick?