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    Default Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    I'm going to share with you guys my bullet-proof technique on flaky girls. Without further ado, here it is :

    ( after you set a date and she cancels at the last minute )

    Hey - I thought you are interesting and fun to be around. I really want to get to know each other a little better. If not, then let's just be friends.

    Success rate : an honest to God 10 out of 10 ( as of Sept. 2010, never had to use it since then, but never say never ).

    The reason behind this is that it throws her off completely. Chances are very high that she has never heard such a thing from a guy before and therefore she will most likely respond with "No, I really want to get to know you better and I think you're interesting too." and some other details and in some cases a re-schedule ( one time, a HB invited me over to her place because of this message ).

    This is Push Pull at it's best.
    Last edited by Sitfab; 03-21-2011 at 03:04 PM.

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    seems kinda bad...cuz what if the girl simply not interested in you??? this would just be a rejection...i would rather try to get her more interested in me before asking such a direct question.
    Last edited by mani; 07-25-2011 at 05:19 PM.

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    If she isn't interested, you guys wouldn't have agreed to set up a date in the first place.

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    i used this a while back, she replied with "sounds like a plan" so chances of her not being interested are still existent. although it should be mentioned this did happen when my texting game was under par.

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    NICE!

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by dchen19 View Post
    i used this a while back, she replied with "sounds like a plan" so chances of her not being interested are still existent. although it should be mentioned this did happen when my texting game was under par.
    Well, you could've replied :

    "Yeah, it is. It's called the 'Knowing What To Do & Not Wasting My Time' action plan."

    Or something to that extent, anyway.

    The idea is that what she replied was a shit-test.

    Smart girl, btw.

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    Must admit, pretty good response to that kind of flake test.
    I will have to use it if the chance ever arises.

    I actually had something very similar happen to me a few years back
    A friend of mine works with this girl. Her and I sort of hit it off, but I knew I didn't want to be in a relationship, and she just got out of a long one. I didn't want to make things weird for my buddy when he went to work so I kind of kept my physical distance from the girl. A few weeks of hanging out in crowds, she kissed me, I didn't pull away. However, a few days later I told her it wasn't a good idea and that her and I should keep it casual and be friends. She agreed with no reluctance. Then, she began to actually get extremely clingy. She eventually became a psycho and stormed out of a bar once any girl looked at me.

    It definitely can work if you just say, hey want to be friends. Because you are making the choice for them.

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    It definitely can work if you just say, hey want to be friends. Because you are making the choice for them.
    I don't know if it will work just like that.

    See, in your situation, you were genuinely not interested in her. And it's the "I can't have him" syndrome at work. That's why it worked.

    Whereas here, the girl knows you're interested and she thinks she can play you; you're interested, but you take your part of the interest away.

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    definitely a good response from that shit test... now i know one next time it happens to me. havent had one flake since that had happened, so im on a streak lol

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    Default Re: Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by Sitfab View Post
    I don't know if it will work just like that.

    See, in your situation, you were genuinely not interested in her. And it's the "I can't have him" syndrome at work. That's why it worked.

    Whereas here, the girl knows you're interested and she thinks she can play you; you're interested, but you take your part of the interest away.
    Yeah, it was a complete different situation. I had no genuine interest in her other than to be just friends.

    She also went a little nutso on me.


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