Ok this is the third date with this HB9...We decided to go out for dinner at the resort we snuck into last week. Met her parents when I picked her up (sorta awkward but they were cool). Started the teasing/playful banter from the start, (its hard to plan sh*t like that, it just has to come from your personality I guess). Havent really heard anything on acting a gentlemen so I did the usual open the doors type thing and seated her, etc. Had a light dinner and then headed to the pools.
Now heres where I think I could really escalate, but something is holding me back! We were playin around in the hot tub, gave her a massage and she gave me one, we were sliding around in there those jets were too powerful so she grabbed me from behind with her arms and legs wrapped around me haha then I turned around and grabbed her sat down and put her on my lap, holding her lower back and legs, then sorta pecked at her neck, etc....We got out, and then went to lay down and I told her I needed some chapstick, and she was about to put it on me and I said, "just put a bunch on and kiss me " and we kissed a few times. We cuddled close for a good 20 minutes and I tried escalating with the "Out of 10" game, but that fell FLAT as ****, went from me asking how good she thinks she is at kissing, to her asking me how good I am at playing instruments. Like, WTF? We just made out, shouldn't this should be moving in a different direction? LOL.
So I ended the game, cuddled some more and then left, I brought her home and then kissed three or four more times in my truck then she went inside. Hmm, so really guys, what am I doing wrong? We didnt kiss once second date, dunno why, but this date went much better considering the last two dates. Am I getting closer to the friend zone or farther away? Maybe I should be cutting the games/crap and just getting to the point? I dunno, because a few things that night (like sneaking into a cabana) she was hesitant, saying shes NOT doing it, and then I told her again and she came with me in there haha. I need a pointer in the right direction guys.