I just got out of a LTR recently. I decided to get back in to the game two months ago. I have been doing well, but I'm still trying to get back to full speed. I haven't practiced game in 4 years...
I still have a few openers memorized and the rest of it is just natural communication that I have picked up from business. I have been getting about 2-5 numbers a night depending on how busy it is. I went out just to enjoy myself and buy a magazine one day, I ended up reading a magazine at a bar nearby. This stunning bartender starts talking to me and I flirt with her for a while. I Number Close and we go out for a drink a few nights later. She is giving me all the right signals so I kiss her at dinner and she melts. We're in her neighborhood, so I tell her I'll just sleep on the couch to sober up, she says OK. She says her bed is more comfortable and she won't fool around with me. FC right there.
She tells me she does some modeling earlier and when I look her up I see she did Playboy. I know, I know, I didn't have super game to achieve this, but I was in the right place at the right time with enough game to muster a fight.
Stage 2. I travel a lot for business and I have been out of town for 3 weeks, but she was still talking to me and interested. When I get back in to town she texts me, "so do you have secrets?" Then she stops talking to me for 4 days. I'm thinking wtf just happened?
Any text message advice? I need to get her interested again and defuse this "secrets" shit or whatever she is talking about. I sent her a friend request on Facebook, so hopefully she will believe I'm a real person now.