How many people have you had sex with?

That's today's question.

More specifically:

Did you have a time when you considered some arbitrary number to be too high, but now you've topped it?
Are you comfortable wth your number or do you wish it to be lower or higher?

Do you perceive a woman with, say, 30 partners the same way as a man with 30 partners.
And, if your perception is different, why is it different?

If you or someone you know has a "high" number of one night stands, do you judge that differently than a high number of short/attempted relationships?

And how do you judge someone with a low number? Does that enhance or detract from their sex appeal?

And lastly, if you could choose, how many sexual partners would your ideal PERMANENT partner have had, approximately?