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    Sherpa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy can't make the final close from the bar!

    hey guys, I'm new to the site but I've been following the pick-up game for a while now.

    So these last two weeks were extremely successful for me. i just moved to a new town where the girl population is like 1000x more than my old city.

    So, i had two number closes in the first week with no kiss.

    Last week was amazing in three nights i had two number closes and three kiss closes.

    To get to my point, i have no problem talking to the girls, and i have no problem kiss closing the girls. But its that last step from the kiss close to, "Hey, lets go up to my house,'' that i can't get.

    This one HB7 last week found out it was my birthday and she came up to tell me it was hers as well. We talked for a little while then i pulled a time constraint and said i best be getting back to my friends. I told her before i left that she owed me a birthday drink before the end of the night. Later into the night i catch her staring at me from across the bar, so i throw my hands up and wave her over, pulling her away from her friends. I get her to buy me a shot, ioi, so i go for the "give me a birthday kiss on the cheek." She complies and kisses me, we go on talking for a while longer then before i pulled another time constraint i said, "one more kiss." so she kisses me on the cheek once again and then she asks for one back. so as soon as i give her the kiss on the cheek she pulls me in and gives me the stare. i kiss close on her, multiple times. we exchange numbers and i wake up to two text from her the next day. i talked to her the following two days, she kept asking me to go out with her and meet up with her, even when she was with her friends and now its been about three days since I've heard from her. i will text her again this week asking if she wants to go out.

    Using this as just an example, i could tell she wanted to go home with me and i know this girl is into me....how to i take it from the bar to the house? I've been successful in the bars but i just can't make the close to bring them home...

    any advice will help, thanks

    Sherpa

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    Default Re: can't make the final close from the bar!

    It depends upon alot of factors, but keep it simple. If its bar close and you've been hanging out with her, "Hey my place is just down the road you wanna swing back and grab a beer?" (Make sure you keep beer and at least some liquor if the girls want a mixed drink)

    If you smoke, especially if you have a wing and you're wing has another girl to game, you guys can say "Hey we're gonna go back and smoke a bowl, you girls down?"

    The premise is you gotta invite her back for a reason other than sex, the reason can be a thin veil, it just gives the girl plausable deniability.
    You obviously can't say "hey lets go back and have sex", even tho the girl may be hoping to do so she could never say yes to that because she would feel like a slut. But inviting her back for a beer is always cool.

    If you got a dog "hey i gotta go let my dog out you should totally swing back with me for a second" or whatever

    Find your fall back and see if you can seed it early. I got a cat whos pretty awesome, she can roll over, sit, stay, and do other little tricks, so during earlier conversation if it comes up then when I invite them to grab a beer and see my cat do tricks it has all the more legitimacy.
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    Felix9288 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: can't make the final close from the bar!

    I agree with red baron set it up tlking about something interesting at ur house or apt. And then bring it up I've used ;have u seen this movie neither have I , just got it tday let's go watch it but Dnt get any ideas I'm wearing my chasity belt .(wks like a charm) and keep the conversation no odd moments


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