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    This thread ill be reporting my live reports including the ones i failed with....even though I just started today on the critique part I have slept with some attractive women but cannot get them consistently.

    So today after history class this HB7 I talked with a few times snuck up behind me and asked me some bs class shit. So we walked to the next class and she barely talks so I try to make her laugh failed at that. When we get to our next class she kind of goes off on her own and sits by herself and I just thought it would be beta of me to try to get her to sit next to me so I sat in the back with 2 other girls both had boy friends I later found out in the class.

    My next attempt was at the train station when I was unsure if the train was making a certain spot so I asked a HB8 about it and she told me it was the right train etc. I told her about i lost my cell phone so I was here to recover it but was sh*t out of lucked... she laughed (prolly at me) and i asked her what school she went to etc. Pretty much no input from her but I had her smiling and twirling her hair.

    When we get on the train she is ahead of me and she sits in the seat and pretty much blocks the seat with her sh*t so once again I thought beta move if i tried to force my way in and just sat else where.

    Now I think I should of just sat with both the girl from the class and the train and tried to continue the convo.

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    Default Re: Day by day

    No you are correct, sitting with them would have been beta.
    The first time when you sat with other people and initiated their conversation, that was great. Doesn't matter if they had boyfriends, you shouldn't even worry about that. If your target sees you making other girls laughing, it flips "preselection" triggers, she doesn't have to know that you don't know them, as far as she knows you are all old friends

    The second one is a little harder to recover from, but you are 100% right it would be beta to try to go move her stuff. You could possiblytry to give her crap, like look at the stuff on the seat and say "ahhh i see how it is" (make sure you're smiling when you said it, then you go find your own seat anyway)

    To be honest I think you need to work on opening more sets. Build your social proof. Those girls should never be the only people there you are talking to. Say hi to the other people at the train station, other guys, girls, ladies, young/old, 5s or 9s, doesn't matter. If your target sees you talking it reduces alot of her shields and really builds you up.
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    Default Re: Day by day

    good move not following the girls to their seats. I've walked with girls to class and even though I really wanted to sit with them I said "sry, I sat next to you last time...gotta mix it up" and then proceeded to sit down next to some random girls. This builds social proof, and makes you look great compared to just following her around the room.

    Also, the above post is right on, be social with everyone. Chat girls up, or guys, or older people: just be a cool, social guy who talks to anyone, not just girls.

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    I agree with Jkwan. I had a very similar experience today. I met this HB8 in class on the 1st day by randomly sitting next to her. We talked and i had her laughing. So the next class i purposefully sat away from her but walked over to ask her about the HW, After getting my answer she practically begged to have me sit next to her. Today she gave me her number and the way its going it wont be long before it escalates some more. Which is good b/c she is definitely GF material. Good luck

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    Ok so I went with my buddy to the city and we met up with a few of his friendds so we decided to jump bars and get drinks (i dont drink) I cant really do mixed sets such as 2 girls and one guy so I tried to look for an all girls set which was hard to open because usually places were crowded and they were moving etc. This one bar we were at I had a perfect chance many times to open this set but I kept pussing out.

    I finally grabbed my balls and the second the group swayed in an way for me to just walk right in ( in an angle not to startle) I went in and said the opnnion routine about my friend has a secret admirer what should he do blah blah blah. All was well I really didnt know who i was targeting bc 2 girls were pretty good so i kept on talking.

    Then my dumbass friend comes in and says "ladies is this guy bothering u" I wanted to knock him out lol but it still worked out bc i kept talking and isolated a HB7 and talked to her for 20 mins number closed her and told her i had to go with my friends. So one out of one is better then 0 outt of ten lol

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    Default Re: Day by day

    Quote Originally Posted by hYdra View Post
    Ok so I went with my buddy to the city and we met up with a few of his friendds so we decided to jump bars and get drinks (i dont drink) I cant really do mixed sets such as 2 girls and one guy so I tried to look for an all girls set which was hard to open because usually places were crowded and they were moving etc. This one bar we were at I had a perfect chance many times to open this set but I kept pussing out.

    I finally grabbed my balls and the second the group swayed in an way for me to just walk right in ( in an angle not to startle) I went in and said the opnnion routine about my friend has a secret admirer what should he do blah blah blah. All was well I really didnt know who i was targeting bc 2 girls were pretty good so i kept on talking.

    Then my dumbass friend comes in and says "ladies is this guy bothering u" I wanted to knock him out lol but it still worked out bc i kept talking and isolated a HB7 and talked to her for 20 mins number closed her and told her i had to go with my friends. So one out of one is better then 0 outt of ten lol
    Nice job on this one. Teach your friend how to wing properly. If he wants to approach girls too he needs to learn how without cutting into your sets and looking so AFC.
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    Default Re: Day by day

    Hey thanks man yeah I gave him lots of material and showed him what he needs to work on. Im going on a second date with that girl. Even though if it goes awesome i'm still going to be gaming, I want to be able to do this anytime i want and whoever i want. Ill report back here sunday

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    Hey good luck on the second date

    Tropics put a good post up on my Multiple LTR gambit, take a look if you want to stay honest with the girl and keep your options open, the second date is usually about time to break it out, works great

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    Oncce I get a girl on lock down im solid from there. I just don't want to blow this. Not to sound like a oneits or anything its just that I don't like failing and i understand it will happen. Any ideas to check if IOIs are up etc?

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    Default Re: Day by day

    Not sure I understand the question, you mean during the delivery? Or before?

    There are lots of posts on IOIs worth checking out. I generally look for eye contact, body position (towards you / away) and any type of 'preening' aka personal grooming like fixing her hair to make sure she looks good for you. All good signs. Review some of the lists as a quick refresher tho, or clarify and I can help you more
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