Girl #1: A few friends and myself that I haven't seen in awhile decided to stop at a hooters to begin our night. I'd say she was a solid 7 (bare with me, I'm not great with details). After we finished our food and I had finished my first pitcher, she was obviously trying to coax me into getting another for myself. Of course I went with it, my goal was just to have a good time with my friends. I made a quick joke about her just looking for an excuse to come talk to me some more she laughed and came back. I got her to sit down and through a little bit of a neg in about her wigwams that is part of there uniform. Everything went well, we talked for quite a bit and I could tell my friends wanted to get out of there since they asked for the check....She came back and I realized I had to do something after all of this. I boldly placed my hand on the back of her arm and leaned in. She was comfortable with it so I just told her that I know she is said to see me go, but I'd love to talk to her again. She wrote her number down on my check and the deal was sealed.
Not sure if I should text her or not. She knows that I'm stationed overseas, but will be headed to San Diego in 3 months. Coincidently she will be out there in the spring.
Girl #2: My friends wanted to go to a Strip Club. After reading through some articles and post, I decided to find a table where it was a little bit loud. For me my goal was for two of my shy friends to go get dances and just have a good time. They were kind of being creeps, so it needed to be done. A solid 9 sat down at the table and was trying to work on my friend, but realized quickly he was way to shy. She noticed my sleeves from across the table, so I held my arm up to show her (its pretty common). Well my friend bought my other friend a lap dance and he just hoped up and left her there. I got her to come over to me we started talking and I made sure she knew I didn't want to be her customer. It was a bit hard to hear her, so I asked her if she wanted to move so we could talk more. We probably talked for way to long from around 11 till closing almost. She asked to see my phone, of course. Maybe my next move was cocky, but it still worked. I pulled up my contacts to add her and put it in front of her like she asked. She laughed and asked what makes you think I want to give you number? I just smiled and she put her number in it and called her phone in front of me so she would have my number. Once that was done we talked for a few more minutes and I told her I had to get back to my friends since it was almost time for the place to close down.
The issue with number two is I just got back to Cuba (I'm stationed here at least for 3 more months). I texted her earlier to give her a number that would work down here. Thinking about it now I probably won't hear back from her.
This is just kind of a shock for me, since normally I'm a very shy person. I've had no real practice being down here in cuba since the girl to male ratio is like 1 to 10. So even though both of these girls knew I was leaving the next day, they still gave me their number? Especially the dancer who instead of going up stage, went and told the dj she had a customer and came back to talk to me instead.
I both of my closers were just kind of cocky I think. I just keep thinking it probably won't work the majority of the time. What do you thing PUA?