I started learning pua around new years of this year. I've never had problems meeting girls by my looks and corky random personality. But as you know social dynamics requires more, I wanted to be more outgoing in crowded environments, and have better interactions. So I ended up in a relationship with a 8 through her being a new hire at my previous job by calling her random man names and utilizing a little pua techniques.
11/23/11 My first Field Test since my split up.
Started the night with a friend. Went to a Applebee's that was a good spot for me years ago, no one their besides older couples at the bar.
Went to a pool hall that use to be a good spot too, nothing their. So I dropped my friend back at home.
Decided to go to a new country club to continue my night. Place has been open a week. Had a good crowd of 400-500. Lots of hot women.
Was a little overwhelmed by the big place and took me a little bit to get accustomed to it, get a drink. I noticed I became stationary in where I bought my drink, and was disappointed I did not approaches as I walked in. I did try to keep a positive vibe, good body language, and a smile.
1st set. Two girls 8's came next to me by the bar to get a drink. I told one of them the spot was taken in a playful tone. Started a little banter but I couldn't keep the conversation going. So I rolled off.
2nd set. Third girls. I asked them where I can buy a cowboy hat. Besides that I don't remember much besides telling them I'll be back later.
3rd set. Single girl -7 dancing by a bar after I got back from restroom. Used the cowboy hat opener. Was able to get locked in by getting her to switch spots with me where she was by the bar. Number closed and she introduced me to her friends as they came over as her new boyfriend.
In the past, I would of been content and would of either left or stood by my self when she left.
4th set. Girl walking around trying to sell shots. She went to ask me to buy one when I quickly blurted out I don't let strangers buy me drinks. She laughed and then I said you laugh like that you'll sell more. Then I rolled off.
5th set. Single girl 7.5 - was on the dance floor. Went with the cowboy hat opener, was a solid situational one because I wasn't dressed anywhere near it. Told her she was no help when she said no. Got an ioi so I got her to into dancing with me. She was receptive to touching of hands then the hair. I asked her if she would like to kiss and she said maybe. So I went in and had success. Number closed. and Have a Day 2 set where she is meeting me at another bar I planned on going.
- I did get a hot bartender to give me a free drink. She just seemed happy to do so.
Overall, I rate myself a B-. Only for the results of two number closed and a kiss close. I was disappointed only opening 5 sets and standing around when I arrived. Happy with how I had a good positive energy and body language, and not getting down about being shot down.
Things to work on
1. Continuing conversations going
2. Doing better with groups
3. Being able to process things quicker to seem smoother.