Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 5 of 5
  1. #1
    McDanger is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 93, Level: 1
    Level completed: 86%, Points required for next Level: 7
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Glasgow
    Posts
    13
    Points
    93
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Talking My First Field Report (PLEASE LEAVE FEEDBACK)

    So last night I decided to dive head first into this community, and headed out to the club for some sarging.

    First set I entered was a total washout. Asked for the girls opinion on cocktails, they gave me one, then turned away.

    Next girl was by herself, hammered at the bar. Hit her with the "Jealous Girlfriend" opener. She responded, but she was so hammered, I couldn't get a serious response.

    Now, at this point, I'm thinking that my appearance (loose t-shirt, baggy jeans, grey converse and some wrist bands) and my weight (23st 12) are holding me back, and was willing to give up. Then a solid 9 sat down herself not far from me. Decided one more go.

    Opened with the "Friend on TV Show" opener from The Game, and straight after hit her with the "4 types of smile" routine, followed by "C shape vs U Shape smiles" routine. And I couldn't believe it. She was responding. She was laughing. She was INTERESTED!

    The sarge went downhill from here. She said she was going to get something to eat. Gave her a little Kino and told her to bring me back something nice. Giggle. Leaves.

    I had no idea what to do.

    There was definitly interest, so I sat there and waited. When she came back (with a bag of crisps) I held out my hand like i was hurt that she'd forgotten about me. I got a crisp, and then she turned round to chat to her friends.

    Game Over.

    I left that night with no new numbers or kiss closes, but I was awoken to the fact that i CAN do this, I CAN be more than my appearance and weight made me believe I could be.

    I'd appreciate any pointers about where i went wrong, and advice for future sarges.

  2. #2
    CHASladykiller is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 421, Level: 8
    Level completed: 43%, Points required for next Level: 29
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Charleston, SC
    Posts
    89
    Points
    421
    Level
    8
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    26

    Default Re: My First Field Report (PLEASE LEAVE

    It's hard to say. What kind of body language did u have. U may have projected too much interest. Did you lean in, did you face her with your body when u opened her? Sure, she can laff and all that, but you have to slide in under the radar, she knows what ur intentions are. I think maybe u used to many routines, I dunno maybe the pros can help. I think holding ur hand out, even playfully for a crisp, may have shown neediness and downplayed your prizability. When u go out next time start flirting immediately and also try reverse gender role, accuse the girl of hitting on u or being the suitor.

  3. #3
    Suave Kino's Avatar
    Suave Kino is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 12,701, Level: 73
    Level completed: 63%, Points required for next Level: 149
    Overall activity: 80.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Albuquerque, NM
    Posts
    612
    Points
    12,701
    Level
    73
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    542

    Default Re: My First Field Report (PLEASE LEAVE

    I think you did a fine job for a beginner. You will definitely improve. I believe the interaction played out because you didn't have anywhere to take her. You opened, but did you ever really transition? Did you transition from some one that she was talking to, to being someone that she wanted to talk to? Don't worry, this comes with time and practice. You might check out my post on seduction or approaching tips, as well. Good luck.

  4. #4
    MavenPhaseshift is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 73, Level: 1
    Level completed: 46%, Points required for next Level: 27
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Los Angeles
    Posts
    3
    Points
    73
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: My First Field Report (PLEASE LEAVE

    Sounds Like you did great. you tried that last one and you got a great response. Now I would of gone for the number. At least we can keep in touch. Always go for the number this way you are calibrated for it. In additioin it will come naturally later.

  5. #5
    jkwan23 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 898, Level: 15
    Level completed: 98%, Points required for next Level: 2
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    31 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2011
    Posts
    93
    Points
    898
    Level
    15
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    44

    Default Re: My First Field Report (PLEASE LEAVE FEEDBACK)

    Great start I'd say, since you did the approaches at least. You might have seemed nervous because you are new at this. Get out there again and approach the same way (maybe dressed a little nicer) and build up a tolerance to the point where you aren't as nervous. It is hard to just tell yourself "be confident tonight, be relaxed" when you have little experience. Instead, by doing this more and more you actually will be more relaxed because it's no big deal to you.

    Do some reading, and get back out there.

    -jkwan


Similar Threads

  1. My first field report.
    By JoePistone in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 18
    Last Thread: 11-20-2011, 05:54 AM
  2. Field report 01
    By Steel-O in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 04-18-2011, 10:54 PM
  3. Here is my very first field report
    By bignasty in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 10
    Last Thread: 11-28-2010, 05:41 AM
  4. Field Report #3
    By hereforfun in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 11-20-2010, 10:49 PM
  5. Second Field Report
    By Sektor in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 06-30-2010, 06:55 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com