FR –Quarter Night
I went out to a quarter night at a country bar with two friends. They start it really early, perfect for a Tuesday night. No sets when we walk in besides our cocktail server. Walked in with good body language and feeling confident with chin up, chest out, and shoulders back. I am feeling a lot more comfortable with my inner game. Good start.
Cocktail waitress I started by having a really high energy level and engaging with sexual eye contact and slowly looking at her lips then back. Something I didn’t do before and am adding it to my game. Threw a few teases, introduced her to my friend as my new g/f then we divorced. They had a positive effect. I think I did a little better not reacting and turning away when I throw out disqualifiers. I did not switch off the push-pull quick enough when she gave me her name and demonstrated I had gotten attraction and to rapport. Didn’t get a close.
This place had some line dancing lessons. I decide to do it to show I am confident and fun, and to force some ioi’s are people were coming in. It worked for one girl I pointed at who looked at me. I was talking to a friend by a railing; the girl came over to us. Obvious IOI and no need to build attraction, it is starting to click. So I just acted, didn’t say a word. I took her hand and led her to the dance floor, she complied. As I we were dancing, I kept eye sexual eye contact and would break to look at lips then back, while trying to get escalating with my body. Within a few minutes we were kissing, and I pulled away before we finished.
There was a 3 set, I had opened two of the three at another bar a week before and got a Number Close. I actually got them confused with another set I had opened from a previous experience. I opened with Hey, how have you been. Told her to me to introduce me to her friends and got a bad response. But rolled with it to I meet lots of people, then changed threads immediately. Read they were not responding well, so I rolled off with saying I have to entertain other friends.
Overall, the experiences are improving my game. Inner game is improving, taking action instead of thinking is increasing, and working on not showing interest and being non-responsive when I give false qualifiers and to shit test is working a little. First month in the game is nearing an end and I plan to keep learning and gaining new experiences. Also, good to have a good knowledgeable wingman Red Baron to give thoughts so I can eyes on the subtleties on non-verbal communication as women can easily pick up on it.