Well this is my first field report. I was dressed pretty slick I thought, and decided I was going to go out to the bar on New Years Eve eve. I wasn't really standing out at all, because I just wanted to drink a few beers and shoot some pool. I was also solo, but hell that is okay too.
The night started out with me winning my first game of pool, with a couple cute girls playing on the table next to me, then this guy came along and just stomped me completely. I put some quarters up on the cute girls table. Turns out one of them was a hell of a shot. She was in the top 5 of the girls there, and for sure the best female shot. She was also very cute, probably an 8. I quickly learned that her man was there with her, so I decided to pivot her for some social proof, and I wasn't that interested in her friend. She was very chatty with me, and gave me a few hugs and then I noticed a few other girls around the room giving me looks.
I wasn't intending on sarging at all, as I work there and this is a pretty small bar, about 30-40 people at the time, almost half of them women, and about half of those single women looking for men. I decided to warm up by opening a few mixed sets with taken women so that I could get a bit more comfortable as I was feeling kind of off and the main purpose was working on state control so I could shoot more consistent pool, but I decided to chase women instead, I mean this would be my first time really going out for that purpose and alone and I may as well get over my fears.
I went outside to smoke and there was this cute, thick brunette there with a little chubby blonde friend. They were outside smoking so I decided to approach. I can't remember my opener but they needed a smoke, so I decided to give them one, and when they asked what kind I told them just a cheap brand. The blonde had her Bitch Shield up from the start, and they both handed me the smokes back and called me a cheapskate and walked to their car to get their Marlboros. I laughed at them, negged them a bit because there is no way I am going to let someone talk shit on me and not talk shit back. They started laughing at my jokes, and I promptly walked away. It was for sure the right thing to do because when I reopened them the bitch shield was gone.
I went to the bar to get a drink and saw an ex girlfriend of mine from high school (we only dated for like 2 weeks and she dumped me for being a pussy), and her friend there, probably a 6. She had kind of a fugly face but a really nice body. I wasn't really interested in either one, as I already had a project going, so I said hi, found out where they were sitting, got my drink and saw the evil twins. They were watching me. So I quickly got hugs from both of the girls and it was obvious they were excited to see me, so I told them I would come hang out in a few, and when they walked away I accused the blonde and brunette of stalking me and called them creepy, then went back out to smoke. They followed maintaining a proximity. They were both kind of tipsy and started singing and I told them that karaoke was last night, and got their attention and started talking to them. I broke off the conversation, which was going well kind of abruptly and talked for a bit to the two girls and the boyfriend that I was shooting pool with earlier, then walked back inside and sat down with my ex and her friend.
My ex hand some "dreamy" eyes for me, and her friend knew it and wasn't really reciprocating with me at all. It was just a couple simple little comments like "where is your boyfriend, oh you broke up, well now you have a chance with me if you don't mess it up" and such. She was smiling but wasn't interested, which was fine, as it made my ex promise a dance with her before I left. I told her, "Hey I can't dance you know, you have to teach me." She obliged and had a really good time on the dance floor with me. The whole time the blonde and brunette had moved over close to our table, and were acting like they were not watching me, but I know better.
I walked past them maintaining strong eye contact and smiling with this evil grin I have, and they started giggling and I went to get a drink, like 30 seconds later they were back at the bar with half a pitcher wanting a refill, lol. I pointed at them and whispered in the bar tender's ear that they were stalking me and she started laughing, and then got my beer and I walked away, got stopped on the way and the brunette said "We aren't stalking you, we know you are looking." I joked with her not to flatter herself and walked off.
Soon as I get back to the table I see that sitting back over there chatting about something and laughing, so I figure its now or never. I got up, walked over to them and asked the blonde to borrow her friend. She looked at her friend and her friend gave the approval and she said yes, so I held out my hand, her friend took it and I led her outside to smoke explaining that we needed some quiet. I told her that I would bet her a drink that I could learn more about her personality in 5 minutes than any guy she had ever dated could learn in two weeks. She was intrigued. I also told her that when I was done, she could ask me two questions about myself that I promised to answer honestly, and then she was going to give me her phone number. She said she wanted 3 questions, so I told her if I liked her personality I would give her three. I started performing the routine, with the most rookie like callous possible. I wanted to keep it short and sweet, and of course I didn't do it right, which was fine, and she kept getting distracted.
I look up like 60 seconds into it, and there are like 15 people watching this. I froze for like 2 seconds and then decided that I had to commit completely, so that is what I did. The pressure made her nervous, at least I believe, and an old friend walked up, and she asked if we could do this when she was sober. I said that I was ready to interpret the results and see how accurate I was. She just couldn't do it with everyone watching, so as she turned her back for a second I got up and left.
No sooner then I get back to my other two girls I am entertaining inside, they are right there by me again, and brunette is looking at me. I walked up and said "You backed out on our deal, now you owe me your phone number, and you don't get to ask me any questions." She looked disappointed about the questions thing but took no time at all to put her number in. I told her I would get ahold of her and give her her personality when she sobered up and walked away and didn't give her any more attention the rest of the night. I was kind of excited. It was the first time a sarge had actually led to a Number Close for me, but of course there were so many women there I wasn't done yet.
I walked out to the dance floor, and danced with my ex and her friend and got kisses on the cheek from them and walked back outside to smoke a cig. There was this guy out there who was from out of town and wanting some trees. He had given 3 good sized black guys his money, and they had been inside over an hour. I told him I could help him out if he would give me a ride home. He said that was great. He couldn't get inside because he forgot his ID and didn't want to leave his money, so I went inside, walked up to the guy he described who was also the alpha of their group and said that he had my friend's money and I was ready to leave. He tried to deny it at first but I could tell he was lying and said he had already called dude, this is where it gets interesting.
I told him that if he was just bullshitting around as it had been over an hour, to just give me the guys money, and he told me that his was fire. I said mine was better and offered up a bowl of mine against a bowl of his, because mine is after all the best in my town. His two friends came over and surrounded me and I could have sworn I was about to get jumped. Once again it was commit or run, without thinking about it committed and said that I didn't care if he was ripping this guy off or not. I don't know him I just want to leave, so if he is pulling some slick shit just tell me so I can get the fuck out of here. He said it wasn't even like that and I said lets go outside then and talk to this guy so I can go home. He actually swallowed hard enough that I could see him gulp and he said somewhat timidly "go outside?". I told him yea, and lets just deal with this shit and get it over with. I couldn't believe myself. His friend went out there, gave the dude his shit, even though it was incredibly short, and I told him that karma was a bitch when ripping people off and went back outside to tell the guy what happened and told him I was sorry but I couldn't do anything for him and I had to go settle my tab out and I would smoke him up at least.
On the way back in I saw an old friend from high school. He said he didn't think he would ever see me again and I went to give him daps and he gave me a hug so I picked him up and flung him around a bit and he was super happy to see me, and me him. He is a good looking, well dressed natural guy, almost always the alpha in his social circles. It was this, and this alone I think got me my next close.
There was a blonde 10 and her 8 friend up by the bar waiting on drinks. They got their drinks as I walked up and I said excuse me ladies with a huge grin on my face. We talked for a minute and I told them I was actually just settling my tab to leave. They got said and told me that I couldn't leave they had just started drinking. Now this other guy had been trying to pick these two up since they got there, and was getting ejected. I even opened them up earlier for him and walked off. I guess my move of trying to help him hurt his pride or something. I got the girls names and told them to let me get their numbers if they wanted to get to know me, because I had to leave. The first one put her number in, and I told her I thought it was fake, and she took my phone back and put another number in and told me to guess which one was real, lol. I put her friend's name in and her friend seemed a little cautious of giving some guy she just met her number, but put it in. Then this guy walked up and leaned over on the bar, took the phone out of her hand, and put his number in then handed it back and said he put his number in, I could call him. I was blown away. The blonde seemed a little disappointed, but it was so good, and I was about to leave I told the ladies good night, gave him a smile, and walked over to talk to the bar tender. I called the first one's phone from the bar from both numbers to see which was fake and then in front of her where she could see I deleted them both. She was watching. That morning about 6 am she called me and asked who this was, I told her my name, and the guy that you guys caught leaving last night. She got all happy and started chatting my ear off. She said she had to be up in 3 hours, so in three hours I sent her a pic message of my grill full of eggs and pancakes (I am a short order cook) and the message "Wakey wakey, eggs and bakey". I tried to keep the text short and sweet and set up for a date, but she was just interested in telling me about her night, which was pretty exciting I guess to her.
So really I got 3 numbers that night, two cute one and a hottie, but I lost one the last second, as well as some other goals I hadn't even thought of. I realized I can do this shit, and it made me feel like a champion. The one real mistake I think I made was a) not getting the blondes number so that I could blow him back out of the set and b)I left the first girl's friend alone. I should have invited her friend with us.
I also went out new years eve, and went to 3 parties, and at all three there were almost no women, and no single women. For some reason though each party had 1 single girl there named emily. It was kind of a weird one, but I used each successful Emily to try and open the other. "You know you are the second Emily I have met tonite?" They weren't digging me at all, I think mainly from just my physical appearance, but hell who cares. I got tore up and was very disappointed as my goal for the night was to find a new years eve kiss, and get 3 phone numbers.
No biggie though, I'll just try again next weekend and perhaps get myself confident enough to go out to some completely unfamiliar places and try to sarge them. Feedback is welcome.