I see a lot of progress in me even if I haven't gotten any F-close with it. I killed my Approach Anxiety as I promised myself; build up the alpha male, confident BL; fixed my humor even if with my accent its hard to be sarcastic. Don't know what to do with it lol but whatever. I can get away with that. I am really good at negging and negging back a girl who does that. dhv is still my biggest problem though. I start to tell random stories to people and I am fixing the delivery right now - talking slower, with pauses, wish I had a deeper voice though. To actually be able to give DHVs, I feel like I need to do a lot of activities. So, I am getting involved on a lot of interesting activities and travelling.
Now I am going to talk about the FR. There is this multicultural advisor on our floor. He got changed with another one due to some reasons. Anyways, the new one is an HB8. She introduced herself to some people including me and I immediately negged her
"In order to take [name of the prev. advisor], you need to be totally awesome. That rule number one for you"
and later, next day i negged her again for not doing her job.
Today, finally I negged her again for that and said "Alright. Let me help you getting to know the people." and we started giving rounds. When I said that, I took the advice from Magic Bullets - get status in different venues if you are not in Show Biz. I am pretty famous in my dorm, so I start to introduce her to everyone and the girls were flirting with me the whole time. I guess that's a DHV She would always use the same sentence when introducing herself: "If you need anything, my room is literally always open", so I went like "hey. listen. you should change your line. I have already heard it 40 times", she changed it. That was pretty funny. Then she thanked me for helping her meet the people in the dorm. I said "How much am I getting paid? Lets share your income in half". She says NO. I act like I am pissed. She went like this: "Since you helped me, I am gonna take you for a lunch." I chose the restaurant and told her that I am not paying s#!t. She agreed. Now, I don't know whats gonna happen. Taking me for a lunch? Its pretty friend zoned IMO. Is there anything I can do to get out of it?