It seems pretty true, social proof + high energy creates approachable situations and sets.
The only thing is, this good thing can create blurred numbers I think, from this story-
Last Friday I went to a local bar/dance place and got going quick with my homie, his girl, and her friends. We've mobbed to this bar before (where I got a # that time), and last weekend did the same.
I had picked up one girl but then split off after dancing and her buying me a shot ha, I shoulda gone for her number but hey, social proof at least. I was pretty tipsy by then but think I was radiating confidence, and treating every dude like my little brother- not in a douchey kinda way, just pattin on the back and makin jokes and what not when they passed through, which girls around me were pickin up on I could sense.
Anyways, I approached a 3 set towards the end of the night, disarmed the obstacle, another was distracted with something else, and attracted the target. I got her number within minutes; and made her laugh cuz I just got my first smartphone and I wasn't sure how to use it (literally) so she helped me put the # in in my phone lol.
I texted her like an hour later from the cab ride home, and said something like "hey thanks for helping me get your number She replied back and said she was still laughing about it.
The only thing is, I was pretty tipsy when I met this girl and while I think I had no shame in my game and was somewhat direct with her, I can't remember what we talked about- and it has the sense of a blurred number.
I talked to her again the next day, just some Fluff talk, and the chat just kinda faded away, no plans made or even bye-talk to you later, sorta thing.
Don't know for sure how I should play it, besides just take charge when I text her next, or let this one slide.
Any tips on this kinda blurred number deal? I kinda dig the girl, but not sure if it's worth it now.
Thanks fellas, good gamins.