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    Infrared is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Talking AMOG'ed the joint- number close

    It seems pretty true, social proof + high energy creates approachable situations and sets.
    The only thing is, this good thing can create blurred numbers I think, from this story-

    Last Friday I went to a local bar/dance place and got going quick with my homie, his girl, and her friends. We've mobbed to this bar before (where I got a # that time), and last weekend did the same.

    I had picked up one girl but then split off after dancing and her buying me a shot ha, I shoulda gone for her number but hey, social proof at least. I was pretty tipsy by then but think I was radiating confidence, and treating every dude like my little brother- not in a douchey kinda way, just pattin on the back and makin jokes and what not when they passed through, which girls around me were pickin up on I could sense.

    Anyways, I approached a 3 set towards the end of the night, disarmed the obstacle, another was distracted with something else, and attracted the target. I got her number within minutes; and made her laugh cuz I just got my first smartphone and I wasn't sure how to use it (literally) so she helped me put the # in in my phone lol.

    I texted her like an hour later from the cab ride home, and said something like "hey thanks for helping me get your number She replied back and said she was still laughing about it.

    The only thing is, I was pretty tipsy when I met this girl and while I think I had no shame in my game and was somewhat direct with her, I can't remember what we talked about- and it has the sense of a blurred number.

    I talked to her again the next day, just some Fluff talk, and the chat just kinda faded away, no plans made or even bye-talk to you later, sorta thing.
    Don't know for sure how I should play it, besides just take charge when I text her next, or let this one slide.

    Any tips on this kinda blurred number deal? I kinda dig the girl, but not sure if it's worth it now.
    Thanks fellas, good gamins.

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    Default Re: AMOG'ed the joint- number close

    my specialty. basically in those situations just go with a quick meet up. since you have no real memories of what was said or done, its like using online game. you have to start from scratch.

    offer a meet up, tell her to come to the same bar one night when you go. or you can Fluff her up with text game. but truth be told most of those "blurred" nights end up with flaky girls. since she was probably in the same state as you were, she is now sober and second guessing what she did that night. what you look like, why she liked you, what you talked about.

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    Default Re: AMOG'ed the joint- number close

    I would let this one slide for now, dont text her anymore and just leave her aside...
    looking for your story it doenst seem a problem for you to number clsoe so next time you go out get another number and practise some more.
    If she went to that club/pub once she will go there twice so dont worry u you will see her again and when she does it will be a coincidental meeting and you have the perfect conversation starter rite there for ya.

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    Default Re: AMOG'ed the joint- number close

    see i disagree completely, he should go for it up until she flakes on him more than twice orrrr he deems it unnecessary to talk to her any more, or she stops responding completely. no harm comes to those that try, harm comes to those that failed to pursue what they want

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    Default Re: AMOG'ed the joint- number close

    Hey thanks jbardu and slim, good advice, and all good points. But I think since I got nothing to lose I'll just text her tonight, create something to do tomorrow (Friday) then tell her and her friends to meet up with my group. Put myself on the chopping block a bit eh whatever, I'm unaware of the level of rapport I have here. I'll throw some Fluff in and keep it light, if we meetup then I can dig for some of those answers.

    I could let it slide but hey why not try? I think you're right Jbardu she may be in the same boat as me, so I'll give her a chance Hey she gave me her number for some reason right? Musta been that AMOG thing I was rollin with.

    Cheers


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