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    Post Slow down, and smell the roses

    So, first post, and first night out since completing The Game. My situational awareness is much higher now, just by grasping the basic concepts Strauss covered in the book. This is mainly just observations I made, while trying to babysit my friend.

    >>>>>>>>Day 2:

    Rule #1: Do NOT drink

    The night started out on a fuzzy note, due to my wing, D, who obviously did not have the right Mindset for the occasion. He was not following my advice at all, which in turn irritated me, so I poured a small drink.
    The night was botched from there.

    Venue 1; Oxford:

    Stimulated the senses, had a beer. Basically just trying to get my friend in to the right mindset. POSITIVE THINKING!
    And off we went to the club.

    Venue 2; Noir:

    It was still early, 10pm or so. There were a few approachable sets, but we decided to take a seat at a middle bar. After having a few drinks, I was in AMOG territory, and getting bored.

    Set #1: HB10+ and Ogre?

    My approach was flawless, exuding confidence and making my initial intentions clear, I wanted to talk to her. I asked both of them for their names, both replied, I inserted commentary behind each of
    since they were both original names, Farah and Bunny, this set the conversation off to a pleasant start. Everything went very smoothly, the only hitch it my attack was I moved to fast. Dialogue only lasted a minute
    before I inquired for a number. The excuse was she didn't give her number out, whatever, I am completely understanding in the sense that I was skipping steps. I did get a hug goodbye, and returned back to my lonely friend.

    The rest of the night was bouncer bs and a list of not being able to get into clubs.

    Get some fing dress shoes and find a mentally stable wing.

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    Default Re: Slow down, and smell the roses

    Does your wing know about PUA? And has he read The Game? If he doesn't, let him read it. Because otherwise he has no idea what your intentions are or what your actions mean and he might think it's all complete crap.

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    Default Re: Slow down, and smell the roses

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    Does your wing know about PUA? And has he read The Game? If he doesn't, let him read it. Because otherwise he has no idea what your intentions are or what your actions mean and he might think it's all complete crap.
    I gave him a crash course, and we have been out sarging before, with moderate success. I did tell him about the book, and told him to take my copy, but he declined. I will continue in my efforts to persuade him to the right side.

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    Default Re: Slow down, and smell the roses

    I have that same problem with my best friend. I generally don't talk about women and dating to a lot to people, including my friends, but share most of it with him. Though for months all he had to say about it is that "It's bullsh1t. You should just be yourself and not take a personality out of a book." He's been more open to it lately but I don't think he's going to become a PUA of any kind.

    It's probably best for both of us to find a friend that's interested in it and would like to achieve great success with women. After all, it takes a lot of effort to read all that material and practise it continuously. Someone that's just in the game to help you out is not going to help you become better with women and might even slow you down.


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