Find a Local Wingman

Are you sick of sitting at home alone on Friday and Saturday nights? Or maybe worse, are you tired of going out to meet women and watching possibly the most unattractive man in the room leave with a hot chick on each arm, while you wonder how to make yourself an alpha male like that guy?

Would you like to know how to change this? Would you like to know the man's secret? You are probably not going to find it in the latest recommended self improvement books.

Because here's the secret: chances are pretty good that he did not walk into that bar or that party or that event alone. He brought his wingman and they probably both know how to flirt.

So your first assignment in changing your life is to find a local wingman. It doesn't matter if you have lived in this city since you were born. Obviously the friends you have aren't doing it for you. I suggest you try to find someone with similar interests and a similar goal: meeting hot women.

Why? Well, you are going to have a lot to learn here if you want to either get laid or find the woman or your dreams or both. You're going to need some help. Now it won't hurt to know some magic tricks to attract women, but it's gonna take more than that.

That man who walked out with the beautiful woman on his arm, probably wasn't born with this talent. He probably has studied pick up artist introductions. This has given him the confidence to walk up to any group of people and engage them in conversation in a non-offensive, fun way.

And you better believe he knows some funny pick up lines, even if he doesn't have to use them anymore. And you may not need to learn them either, but you should definitely find a local wingman right off the bat.

A wingman is they guy who has the guts, balls, the daring to show you how to walk up to any group and win them over. A wingman is also the friend you go out with who will help you become the self confident, savvy dater that you read about in online dating advice blogs.

He's your friend, but he's also someone who helps you meet women. Believe me, there are lots of men like this out there who know what women want and are committed to helping other men become better with women. It doesn't take much for you to find a local wingman in your area and begin hitting the streets and meeting the women.

Maybe he has already figured out how to pick up women and that's fantastic. But even if he hasn't, you both can help each other learn and meet women.

As your friendship develops, he can share some of his field reports and you can study them like you were in school again, taking note of what worked and what didn't. You can also get back to him on this, sharing what has worked for you and what hasn't worked.

Studying field reports is something I highly recommend along with reading magazines and books with health and fitness advice. You and your wingman can encourage each other to improve yourself in other ways: mentally, physically, emotionally and with this support system, nothing can stand in your way.