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    charliesheen92 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with what my daily goal of approaching should be

    Lately I've been struggling with not knowing what I should be shooting for. As of right now I'm giving myself a rule of 5 approaches a day. Do I think it's enough probably not, but I'm at a point where I can't even do any approaches sometimes. I had 2 days in a row of making 5 approaches, then the last 2 days I did NONE so my aa is getting in the way bigtime. I know I will never get laid or get good at pick-up if I don't practice cold approaches but how many should I do a day, I need to set a bar for a certain number because that way I will hold myself accountable for approaching at least that number of times a day. So if you're strting out and you wanna get good at this how many approaches a day should I do?

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    Default Re: Need help with what my daily goal of approaching should be

    Hey CharlieSheen, I am sort of going through the same thing at the moment, for the past 3 weeks I have been approaching during the day to try to conquer my aa, but have been able to open more than 6 per day.

    All I can say is that its still there everyday and I'm sure will never go away, but everyday I can deal with it with much more confidence because I am continuing to work on it daily.

    The key here is PERSEVERENCE, so what if you have an off day, the key is to try the next day. Don't be too hard on yourself, your doing something lots of men won't dare do.

    One other important thing; acceptance, everyday before you leave the house, do acknowledge that when you approach girls today, your heart will start racing and you might get butterflies in your stomach, this is normal don't find natural instincts, accept them. In time, they will mostly go away.

    As for setting a bar; try opening five a day for a week, if you pass that; open 5 on Monday, and with everyday of the week add one more, or two if your feeling it.

    GoodLuck


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