Little about me: 25years old. Latino. Lives in Chicago Area. Shy. Ackward. Social Anxiety. Fear of speaking in groups. Prone to stuttering , hesitation etc. I've always been the guy people tell "Why are you so quiet?" "Dont you feel like you want to get involved in the conversation?" "Say something man" "YOu are too nice"....Lots of bad experiences hunt me till this day. I have very low self confidence, low self-esteem and I put girls on a pedestal which results in having a lot of fear when Im around them. I avoid the cute cashiers and go to the guy or older women cash register and it kills me that Im such a coward.
I feel like I need to change now before i get too old.
I plan on taking salsa dance lessons, martial arts, public speaking classes and start going out and approaching girls with the help of these forums and would be real nice to hang out with some people that understand where Im coming from and are also in the journey to become social and succesfull with women. Anyone interested of doing these and/or other things with me to improve social skill ????
PM with any questions if need be