I'm longing for the day when people don't feel embarrassed telling strangers that they've been studying this. Sadly the stigma and reluctance to identity is controlled by the mainstream portrayal of us, and that is going to go back-and-forth depending on what sells more copy. There is definitely weird stuff that I don't identity with, but I've found some wordings that really emphasis the positive of what we are doing. Does anyone remember what the final medallion from VH1's the PUA was? Maybe we could all wear that as our peacocking symbol.